Hey, definitely no need to feel embarrassed, it’s really common to deal with stuff like this. So yeah, sitz baths can be pretty great for irritation and mild burning, helps with increasing blood flow and soothing the tissues. It’s not just for hemorrhoids, but can really help with just general discomfort too.
About the Ayurvedic oils, I can see why you’re confused—there are quite a few. For irritation and some burning you’re experiencing, you might want to try using jyotishmati oil or kumari taila (aloe vera oil). These are generally soothing, cooling, and help with inflammation and irritation. Rather than pouring the oil directly into the water, you could apply a light layer to the affected area before the bath or after you towel off, just to keep the skin moisturized and help it heal.
If the itching’s coming back too strongly after using the sitz bath, it could be from drying the area out too much or spending too long in there. Aim for 10-15 mins in lukewarm—not hot—water. If you’re doing it more than a couple times a day, that might be too much too.
As for herbs other than neem, you might try triphala or manjistha. They both have anti-inflammatory properties. You could make a mild decoction and add it to the bathwater, much like you did with the neem. And, seriously, sometimes the simplest things—like using cotton underwear and avoiding tight clothes—can make a difference too.
Remember, if you’re still struggling or things seem to worsen, it’s worth visiting a health professional to dig into what’s going on there. Ayurveda’s fantastic, but always works best when it complements comprehensive health care. Hope that helps!