Your skin situation sounds pretty frustrating, I’m sorry to hear you’re dealing with all that. It makes sense to be exploring your options. Ayurveda could be a potential route, especially because it looks beyond the surface and often links skin issues with imbalances inside the body like poor digestion or accumulated toxins (ama) in the system which can irritate skin.
First off, have you tried identifying your dosha (body constitution)? It can be really useful as it can affect how your skin behaves. On days when your skin is oily, that’s likely a sign of a pitta imbalance whereas the dry, flaky days might show vata dosha going off track. If possible, balancing your dosha could help. Though if the imbalance looks complex or deeply rooted, I’d still suggest not ruling out medical advice along side.
For immediate steps, pay attention to your diet. Warm, cooked foods that are easy to digest might soothe things. Cut down on spicy or acidic food that may aggravate pitta, which can trigger those breakouts and redness. Ghee is often recommended — small amounts can really help moisturize skin from the inside out.
Triphala, a combination of three fruits, is traditional for aiding digestion and detoxification. You can take it as a powder mixed with warm water before bed to support digestive upset, assuming you’re not allergic to any of its components.
Herbs like neem and turmeric are big in ayurveda for their skin benefits, owing to their anti-inflammatory and detoxing properties. A simple neem powder paste with a bit of water applied gently can be calming for the skin.
Your skin being fickle between oily and dry suggests some instability in your environment or routine. If your skin feels too dry, avoid using very hot water and switch to mild, soap-free cleansers. A simple rose water spray can also be refreshing and hydrating without causing irritation.
If these approaches don’t offer relief in a few weeks or if symptoms worsen, don’t hesitate to consult a dermatologist. Sometimes having a dual approach - both ayurvedic and dermatological - ensures comprehensive care. A dermat could help rule out any underlying medical conditions that might be camuflaging as a simple imbalance.



