Struggling with Intrusive Thoughts After a Breakup - #39732
I am suffering from depression from last 5 months my condition was very worse but Now I feel much better after medication butI faced intrusive thoughts about past relationship. I am very stressed about that I don't Want to back from him because he leave me and didn't respect but sometimes the thoughts about past relationship never give up whole day
How would you rate the severity of your intrusive thoughts?:
- Extreme, overwhelming all dayHave you noticed any specific triggers for these thoughts?:
- No specific triggersWhat coping strategies have you tried so far?:
- Meditation or mindfulnessइस स्थिति के लिए डॉक्टर द्वारा सुझाए गए उपचार


डॉक्टरों की प्रतिक्रियाएं
What your experiencing is very normal during recovery from depression when you start feeling better after a depressive phase, your mind regains energy and along with that old emotional memories, especially painful ones often surface more vividly. This intrusive thoughts about your past relationship or notice that you still want to go back. There are a sign that your mind is still processing. The heart reduction and loss of respect your experienced. It is like your emotions are catching up to what You intellect already knows that you deserve peace and dignity. The best way to handle this is not by fighting the thoughts, but by acknowledging and redirecting them when a memory or image of that person appears tell yourself calmly. Yes, that was a part of my life, but it no longer defines my present, then gently shift your attention to what you’re doing at that moment. Repeatedly doing this trains, your brain to stop looping around the past Practically keep yourself grounded, go for morning walk do deep breathing inhale for four counts, hold it for 8 counts and exile for six Write down your thoughts before bed to release them from your mind In Ayurveda depression with constant thought, turning is linked to disturbed vata so warm stable routines help-eat on time, avoid skipping meals You can take Brahmi vati one tablet twice daily after food with warm milk Manasamitra vatikam one tablet at night with warm milk Shankapuspi churna half teaspoon with warm water after food It is also important to slowly rebuild, joy, and self-worth through small things. Connecting with people listening to soothing music. Practising gratitude. For how far you have come, Healing from emotional pain is not about forgetting someone. It is about remembering yourself again over time. Those intro thoughts will fade naturally as your mind realises it. No longer needs to hold onto that old pain
Intrusive thoughts, particularly those arising from past relationships, can indeed be challenging to deal with, especially during periods of stress or depression. In Ayurveda, such thoughts are often understood in terms of mental ama (toxins) that accumulate due to unresolved emotions. It may be useful to cleanse and calm the mind, promoting a balanced Rajas (the guna associated with motion and activity) and peaceful Sattva (the guna linked with clarity and wisdom).
Start with a simple morning routine targeted towards enhancing mental clarity. Begin your day with Abhyanga (self-massage) using warm sesame oil. This can help pacify Vata dosha, the dosha often associated with anxiety and excessive thinking. After the massage, engage in a brief meditation session, focusing on deep breathing exercises (Pranayama) such as Anulom Vilom (alternate nostril breathing). This practice helps calm the mind and provides relief to the racing thoughts.
In terms of diet, avoid stimulating substances like caffeine or processed sugars which can aggravate Vata. Incorporate grounding foods like root vegetables (carrots, sweet potatoes) and whole grains (brown rice or quinoa). A balanced diet supports the natural functioning of mind and body, aiding mental stability.
For nighttime relaxation, a warm glass of milk with a pinch of turmeric or cardamom can be beneficial. The milk acts as a natural sedative, and the spices aid digestion, which is crucial for mental clarity. Also, ensure you have a consistent sleep routine. Sleep is restorative and vital for mental health, aim for 7-8 hours every night.
Finally, if these thoughts become overwhelming or if your condition worsens, it would be wise to consult a professional. Intrusive thoughts sometimes signal deeper issues that benefit from therapeutic interventions paired with Ayurvedic practices.

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