Take Neo 1tab 2times after food Brahmi vati 1tab 2times after food Saraswatarishta 10ml bd after food Avoid oily spicy food meat
Bedwetting at age 12, known in Ayurveda as Shayyamutra, is often a source of deep frustration for both the child and the parents. Since your son is resistant to medication, it is helpful to frame these Ayurvedic remedies not as “medicine” but as “strength-givers” or “tonics” that help his body wake up when his bladder is full. The Ayurvedic Perspective In Ayurveda, bedwetting is primarily viewed as a disturbance in Vata Dosha, specifically the Apana Vayu which governs the downward flow of urine and stool. Vata and Kapha Imbalance: An excess of Kapha can cause a “heavy sleep” (Tamasa Nidra), making it difficult for the child to wake up to the bladder’s signal. Meanwhile, an unstable Vata causes the bladder muscles to contract prematurely. Mano-vaha Srotas (Mind Channels): Psychological factors like stress, anxiety, or even a lack of “self-confidence” can affect the stability of the nervous system’s control over the bladder. Krimhara (Deworming): Ayurveda often links persistent bedwetting to intestinal worms (Krimis), which can irritate the pelvic region and trigger involuntary urination at night. Suggested Management from Kerala Ayurveda These formulations are generally palatable and can be integrated into his daily routine without the “medical” feel. 1. Saraswatarishtam This is a famous brain tonic that improves nerve coordination. It helps in sharpening the communication between the bladder and the brain, ensuring the “full bladder” signal is strong enough to wake him up. Dose: 15 ml mixed with an equal amount of lukewarm water, taken twice daily after meals. 2. Chandraprabha Vati This is the gold standard for urinary tract health in Ayurveda. It strengthens the bladder muscles (Basti-shuddhi) and regulates the flow of Apana Vayu. If he refuses tablets, these can be crushed and mixed into a teaspoon of honey. Dose: 1 tablet twice daily. It is best taken with warm water or milk after food. 3. Dasamoolarishtam Since bedwetting is a Vata-dominant condition, this fermented liquid helps ground the nervous system and provides strength to the pelvic floor. Dose: 10 ml mixed with 10 ml of water, taken once daily at bedtime. 4. Vidaryadi Lehyam (A Tasty Alternative) If he refuses tablets and liquids, this is a jam-like herbal paste. It is a “Balya” (strengthening) tonic that nourishes the reproductive and urinary systems. Dose: 1 teaspoon (about 5–10g) followed by a cup of warm milk twice a day. Non-Medicinal Strategies (The “Gentle” Approach) Since he is hesitant about medicine, focusing on these Ayurvedic lifestyle shifts can make a significant difference: The “Krimi” Check: Given your medical background, consider a mild deworming protocol first. In Ayurveda, Vidangarishtam is used for this. Sometimes, clearing worms stops bedwetting within a week. Evening Fluid Management: Limit water, milk, or juicy fruits after 7:00 PM. Ensure he voids his bladder right before his head hits the pillow. Massages (Snehan): Applying warm Dhanwantharam Thailam to the lower abdomen and the soles of his feet before sleep can help calm the Vata that triggers the bladder. The Nutmeg Remedy: A pinch of Nutmeg (Jatiphal) powder in warm milk at night acts as a mild sedative for the bladder and helps stabilize the nervous system.
Hello, dear parent, Thank you for sharing this in such detail — I can understand your concern. At 12 years of age with bedwetting happening several times a week for more than 2 years, this condition is called primary nocturnal enuresis, and yes — it is treatable. What I understand from your history: Child is otherwise healthy and developing normally ✅ Bedwetting is frequent (several times/week) He is not fully accepting the problem, but still tries to hide it → this suggests internal embarrassment No clear triggers → likely a functional + behavioral + deep sleep issue, not a serious disease Important insight (very crucial) Your child saying “I will stop on my own” is actually common at this age. 👉 This is a defense mechanism, not stubbornness. He may: Feel embarrassed Want to avoid medication or feeling “different” Believe it will resolve naturally So forcing medicines may backfire. Best Treatment Approach (without forcing medication) 1. Build Awareness — not pressure Have a calm conversation: Explain that this is a common medical condition Many children face it, and it’s not his fault 👉 Goal: Make him a partner in treatment, not a resistant patient 2. Behavioral Plan (Most effective in such cases) Urinate twice before sleep (double voiding) Set a fixed waking time at night (parent-assisted initially) Reduce fluids 1.5–2 hrs before bed (no strict restriction) Avoid caffeine (tea, cola, chocolate at night) 3. Bedwetting Alarm (Game changer) This is often more effective than medicines in resistant children. 👉 Works by training brain-bladder connection 👉 Takes 4–8 weeks but gives long-term results 4. Treat hidden causes Even if not obvious, check: Constipation (very common hidden cause) Urine test (to rule out infection) If he resists “medicines,” you can try: Warm milk with a pinch of nutmeg (jaiphal) at night Light til oil massage on lower abdomen before sleep These are subtle and often more acceptable to children. also Internal medicines: Saraswatarishta – 10 ml with equal water, twice daily after food → Helps in nervous system control Brahmi Vati – 1 tablet at night → Improves brain-bladder coordination Ashwagandha churna – 1–2 gm with milk at night → Useful if stress, deep sleep imbalance present Chandraprabha Vati – 1 tablet twice daily → Supports urinary system tone
Don’t worry Your son needed counselling. Minimize fluid intake after 8pm. Tab Neo 1-0-1 Vidangarishta 10 ml twice a day after meal with lukewarm water. Follow up after 2 weeks.
Hi If he refuses to take medicine then you have only one option left to give him medicine blindly in food Take Tab neo 1 tab daily mix in food and give to him He will get results Thankyou
Bedwetting at this age is usually due to immature bladder control and deep sleep. It is common and can be corrected with routine. Since he is refusing medicines, focus on habits first. Do this: Stop fluids 1.5–2 hours before sleep Make him pass urine just before going to bed Wake him once at night (after 2–3 hours of sleep) to pass urine Avoid: Cold drinks, chocolate, excess milk at night Encourage daytime routine: Make him pass urine every 2–3 hours (bladder training) Keep sleep time fixed (10 PM) Lifestyle: Do not scold or shame him Motivate and explain calmly Use reward system for dry nights Natural support: 1 tsp honey at night before sleep Soaked black raisins (4–5) in the evening Medicines (if he agrees later): Chandraprabha vati 1 tablet twice daily after food Brahmi vati 1 tablet at night Most children improve gradually with routine and confidence building. If it continues, evaluation for bladder function may be needed. For personalised guidance and child-friendly approach, you can consult me.
Medication Tab. Neo 2 tabs wice a day before food Syp. Saraswatarishta 3 tsp twice a day after food As you mentioned he is taking efforts to waking up at night you should appricate his efforts. Once he starts receiving apprication and occasional rewards he will still continue to add more efforts and eventually his issue will be solved. Make him have dinner by 7-8 pm. Avoid liquid foods for dinner. No tea/ coffee after 5 pm. No water an hour before sleeping. Going to washroom just before sleeping. ALso very important check his HbA1C leves and if required a GTT test. Something that you are considering as bedwetting may be a sign of raised sugar and juvenile diabetes.
Hello, Bedwetting at age 12 is quite common, especially when it has been ongoing for years and the child is otherwise healthy. In Ayurveda, this is understood as an imbalance primarily involving Vata dosha (especially apana vata) along with weak bladder control. Your son’s case (long duration, several Times a week , mild emotional avoidance, normal health fits into a chronic functional pattern , not a disease- so management focuses on strengthening control, not just stopping symptoms Ayurvedic view -Vata imbalance-> poor nerve control of bladder -Weak bladder tone -Deep seat pattern-> brain doesn’t signal waking -Sometimes mild kapha dominance (heavy sleep) Ayurvedic management plan 1) Daily routine (most important) consistency matters more than medicine Evening discipline (crucial) -stop fluids 2 hours before sleep -ensure urination twice before sleep (once early, once just before sleeping) Avoid -cold drinks -milk at night especially cold milk -heavy, oily, or sugary dinner Diet -warm, light, meals at night -whole grains= wheat, rice lightly spiced -moong dal easy to digest -dry fruits in small quantity almonds, walnuts -spices that strengthen bladder= cumin, ajwain, black pepper Avoid -cold foods ice cream, refrigerated items -excess sugar -packaged/ junk food -excess dairy at night Simple home remedies 1) Roasted ajwain + jaggery= 1/2 tsp ajwain powder + small piece of jaggery give after dinner =helps strengthen bladder control 2) Black sesame seeds = 1 tsp at bedtime =improves urianry control and warmth 3) Honey + cinnamon =1 tsp honey + pinch of cinnamon =before sleep Medicines usually not require External therapies -Oil massage= daily warm sesame oil massage on lower abdomen and lower back =this calms vata and improves nerve signaling -Gentle heat therapy= warm compress on lower abdomen before bed, helps bladder control Behavioural training= very important Your son’s attitude (“I’ll stop”) shows denial + coping, not lazziness What to do -avoid scolding or shame this worsens the condition -use a reward system, not punishment -encourage responsibility= let him help clean/manage discreetly -wake him once at night (temporary support, not permanent solution) Yoga and simple practices Daily even 10 minutes will help a lot -vajrasana after dinner 1 min -Ashwini mudra= control relax anal muscles (improves bladder control) -deep breathing before sleep Time line and expectations -Improvement usually starts in 4-6 weeks -Significant control in 2-3 months -complete resolution may take 3-6 months Consistency is key This is not abnormal at his age, just delayed control Focus on routine +gentle discipline + support Do follow Hoope this might be helpful Thank you
The condition which you describe about your son is pointing towards the imbalance of vata Kapha dosha and some involvement of intestinal worms We will focus on strengthening the bladder muscle and Calming The Nervous System 1) Chandraprabha Vati-1 tablet morning and evening after food with warm water 2)Saraswatarishtam-15 ml + 15 ml water twice daily after food 3) Brahmi Ghritham-1 tsp empty stomach on early morning with warm water 4) Krimiguna Vatika- 1 tablet once at bed time for 3 Nights Limit water Milk or juice intake after 6 or 7 p.m. ensure the child is well hydrated during morning and afternoon Avoid curd ice cream cold drink and heavy sweet at dinner Give one teaspoon black sism a seat with jaggery in the evening or one small Til laddu in the evening Bring the day encourage the child to try and hold urine for few minute longer after he feels to go to toilet Ask your child to go to toilet at start of before going to bed and again write before getting to sleep Since he already tries to wake up use an alarm or physically wake him 23 hours after he fall asleep to use washroom Gently massage the lower abdomen in clockwise direction and also the pelvic area With warm sesame oil before his evening bath
Start with Shilajit satva 1 drop in a cup of milk . Sarasvati syrup put 2tsp in a glass of cool milk and give once daily. In this way your child will not know he is taking medicine and your problem too can come under control. Restrict liquid after 7 pm . Night when he wakes up let him go straight to bathroom to pass urine.
