How to deal with high sexual desires - #19487

Hi Tooba,

I’m truly sorry to hear that you’re experiencing this. It’s important to acknowledge that you’re going through a difficult time, but it’s good that you’re seeking help. In Ayurveda, emotional struggles like those linked to bipolar disorder, guilt, and obsessive thoughts are often associated with an imbalance in the Vata and Pitta doshas. For you, focusing on mental clarity and nourishment for the mind and body could be helpful.

To better understand your condition, may I ask how your sleep and digestion are? Do you experience any anxiety or stress before bed, or are there any foods that seem to make your symptoms worse? Additionally, how is your physical health, like energy levels and appetite? This will help guide a more tailored approach toward balancing your mental and emotional well-being.

Dealing with high sexual desires while grappling with bipolar disorder and past traumas isn’t easy, and it’s good you’re reaching out for help. First, it’s important to acknowledge that your situation is complex, with multiple layers like mental health, personal experiences, and spiritual beliefs intertwining. There isn’t a single fix or solution that fits everyone, but steps can be taken to navigate this.

Given your background in MBBS and faith, grounding yourself in routines that harmonize with your beliefs can be a start. Incorporating Ayurveda principles with your routine can be subtle yet empowering. Lets dive into a few things you might consider doing:

1. Mindful Meditation & Zikr: You’re already leaning on zikr, expanding into mindful meditation could help calm racing thoughts. Try sitting quietly, focusing on your breath. You could set a time for this, maybe after fajr or before bed, for 5-10 minutes.

2. Ashwagandha & Brahmi: Ayurveda suggests herbs like Ashwagandha and Brahmi to help balance the mind. Ashwagandha is grounding and might aid in stabilizing mood swings, while Brahmi is traditionally used to support mental clarity—check if these could be incorporated alongside any existing meds.

3. Sattvic Diet: Nourishing your body with pure, fresh foods can subtly shift your mindset. A diet filled with fresh fruits, vegetables, nuts, and seeds could be beneficial. Stay clear of too much caffeine or sugar.

4. Physical Activity: Even gentle exercises like walking or yoga can help release some pent-up energy, it does not have to be intense, just a stroll while listening to Surahs could help.

5. Limit External Stimuli: With high sexual desires, sometimes it’s about managing what feeds them. Maybe limit time on the internet in spaces that may trigger those feelings.

It’s crucial to find the right balance of professional medical advice and your personal journey through healing. While Ayurveda can complement, make sure to consult with your healthcare provider, especially when blending with other therapeutic interventions. It’s okay to have help, and you’re already showing strength by seeking answers. Remember, small changes matter.