What should I know about sex during pregnancy and how can it affect my partner and me? - #22443
I am really curious about sex during pregnancy right now. So, me and my partner, we’ve been a bit confused about it. It’s like, at first I thought it was a big no-no, but then I read that sex during pregnancy can actually be safe, which got me thinking. My partner seems really uncomfortable sometimes, like she’s worried if it'll harm the baby or something, ugh! We’re in like the second trimester now, and I’ve heard that it can even be beneficial for us, but I dunno. So, what’s the deal? Is sex during pregnancy different for each trimester or should we just avoid certain positions? Are there signs or symptoms we should watch for that might mean we need to stop? I just want to make sure we’re both safe, y’know? And, let me add, we haven’t tried anything crazy, just regular. Sometimes I feel like I can sense her anxiety about it, but I also don’t wanna miss out on intimacy. I guess I kinda feel confused and still want to know if there’s some dos and don’ts for sex during pregnancy we should be aware of. Any advice would be super helpful! 🙏
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Sex during pregnancy can indeed be safe and even beneficial, but it often raises valid concerns and questions, just like you’re experiencing. In Ayurveda, the balance of doshas and the health of both partners are critical considerations. During the second trimester, many find it to be a more comfortable stage for intimacy, as the initial nausea and fatigue decrease. However, it’s essential to approach this naturally, respecting any discomfort or anxiety either of you might feel.
Firstly, communication between you and your partner is key. Any anxiety or apprehension should be openly discussed. Understanding each other’s concerns helps ensure a healthier relationship during pregnancy. Generally, sex is safe in the second trimester unless there are complications like placenta previa, cervical insufficiency, or preterm labor risks, among others. Always consult a healthcare provider if any of these conditions are present.
Regarding positions, just go for ones that are comfortable and do not apply pressure on the abdomen. Side-by-side or rear entry can sometimes be more comfortable as the belly grows. Avoid positions that cause discomfort or strain, and be attentive to any signals your partner might share.
If there’s any spotting, cramping, or unusual pain during or after intercourse, it’s essential to halt for a moment and consult with a doctor. From an Ayurvedic perspective practicing relaxation techniques like gentle yoga, deep breathing, or meditation can help alleviate anxiety about intimacy, ensuring both physical and mental well-being.
Monitor for signs that might indicate it’s time to pause sexual activity, like pain, bleeding, or any doctor’s concerns. Keep intimacy meaningful and spontaneous without forcing anything, staying attuned to each other’s comfort levels. And, hey, always prioritize safety, your connection, and your baby’s health above all.

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