Disturb and feel irritate all the time - #26348
I am disturbed and forget all things instantly can't focus on my work i am housewife and mother of 4 children too please help me out of this situation every time I think negative i feel pain and lonely suddenly i want to do suicide but when I see mychildren i change my mind.....
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For Anxity Manas Mitra Vatakam – 2 tab twice a day Ashwagandha churna – 1/2 tsp with warm milk at night Brahmi Ghrita – 1 tsp with warm water or milk in the morning (improves focus, memory, calms the mind) For Anemia: Punarnava Mandur – 1 tab twice daily (supports hemoglobin and reduces fatigue) Draksharishta or Lohasava – 10 ml twice daily after meals with equal water Emotional Healing Talk it out: If possible, talk to someone you trust. A friend, a local healer, or a counselor.
Don’t worry Your problem will be resolved through Ayurveda You should visit nearby Ayurveda Center for Shirodhara and proper counselling
HELLO NIKHAT,
You’re not alone, and it’s important to take your mental health seriously. you’ve done something strong by speaking up
Your symptoms suggest Manasika vikara mental imbalance, likely linked to vata-pitta aggravation
1) DAILY ROUTINE Helps calm the mind and create emotional stability -wake up before sunrise -oil massage with warm sesame oil especially head and feet -bath with lukewarm water -early light dinner before 7 pm -sleep by 10 pm
INTERNALLY TAKE -BRAHMI GHRITA= 1 tsp with warm milk in morning
-ASHWAGANDHA AVALEHA= 1 tsp twice daily with warm milk balances stress and energy
-SHANKHAPUSHPI SYRUP= 1 tsp twice daily helps with sleep and memory
MIND CALMING TECHNIQUES -Nadi sodhana = 5 min morning and night balances emotions
-Meditation with mantra= chant “OM SHANTI” for 10 mins daily
DIET- Satvik, nourishing, vata hara -warm, fresh , home cooked meals -ghee, milk, dates, almonds, moong dal -avoid cold foods, processed snacks, caffeine, and excess spicy/oily food
SEEK HELP (please don’t skip this) -talk to mental health counseler -play and spend time with love ones your children is your strength -reach out to someone you trust- friend, family, husband etc
If you ever feel like you are in immediate danger of harming yourself, go to the nearest hospital, or call local emergency number or suicide helpline.
YOUR CHILDREN NEED YOU- AND YOU MATTER
THANK YOU
DR. HEMANSHU MEHTA
Hello, You have mentioned you have anemia. It is ideal to fix that before going forward and also check for Vit.B12 and Vit.D3. If there is deficiencies then also you can get all the above said symptoms. Once the reports come out we can take a call on medications and diet-lifestyle. Take care. Kind regards.
Don’t worry dear, Start taking, 1.Lohasava 20ml with equal amount of Lukewarm water just after having meal twice in a day. 2.Manasmitragullika 1-1-1 3.Brahmi tab. 1-1-1 4.Masaage your scalp with BRAHMI OIL. **SHIRODHARA ×15 DAYS.
Start Manasmitra vatikam 1-0-1 after food with water Brahmi vati 1-0-1 after food with water Ashwagandha churan 0-0-1tsp at bedtime with water Brahmi oil light massage on scalp twice weekly keep overnight. Do Nasya with Brahmi grith 2 drops in both nostril once daily Do pranayam lom -vilom bhastrika bhamri 5-10mins daily twice Learn Rajyoga meditation and practice daily Follow up after 1 month
Don’t worry the best medicine for you is enjoy with you children with having fun activities listen music dance, cooking ok. Be happy always is the best medicine
1) Brahmi Vati -1 tab. Before food with water
2.) Ashwagnadha Churna-2gm+ Mandookaparni choorna-1gm +Shankhapushpi churna-1/2gm + Guduchi Churna-1gm+ + Smritisagar rasa-250mg+ jaharamohara pishti-250mg + Rajata Bhasma-50mg
- after food with milk 2 times aday
3) .Sarasvatarishta-20ml after food with 1 cup milk 2 times a day
Meditation
Japa, Ajapa meditation for 15-30 minutes.
Diet and Lifestyle
Pathya
Meditation, relaxation techniques, music therapy, adequate sleep.
Taking delicious and pleasant food at calm place.
Apathya
Curd, heavy, too cold foods, constipating diets.
Medha vati Brahmi vati - one tablet each twice daily after food with warm milk Saraswathi aristha-4 teaspoon with equal quantity of water twice daily after food Do reg Pranayam meditation
Please go for Shirodhara if possible . And talk to your family and friends about your feelings and try to sort out issues , if any . Try to have your meals on time .
Regarding medication Lohasava 2 times a day 10 ml with equal amount of warm water . ( Avoid if you have diabetes ) Brahmi vati 2 tablets × 2
Practice yoga or meditation. Spend time with your kids and stay happy . And see if your menstrual cycle is normal and there’s no leucorrhoea . If something like that is there , please let me know . Don’t just rely on medicines .
HELLO NIKHAT,
You mentioned -constant irritation and disturbance -forgetfullness -inability to focus on work -negative thoughts and suicidal feelings -loneliness -you also have chronic anemia
WHAT DOES IT ALL MEAN? All these are signs that your mind and body are deeply exhausted. You’re likely suffering from a combination of -mental health imbalance (possibly depression or anxiety) -nervous system fatigue -hormonal imbalances -chronic nutritional deficiencies like irom -excessive responsibilities without rest
In Ayurveda, this may be classified under -Manasika vyadhi= mental disorders(especially chittodvega=anxiety, and Vishada= depression) -Pandu roga= anemia- related disorder due to rakta dhatus depetion -Vata pitta imbalance= responsible for disturbed mind, irritation, insomnia, pain, fear
TREATMENT GOALS -calm the mind and nervous system -rebuild strength in body and blood -balance hormones and mood naturally -dring restful sleep -support emotional healing and mental clarity
INTERNAL MEDICATIONS
1) ASHWAGANDHA CHURNA= 1 tsp with warm milk twice daily in morning and bed time for 3 monrhs =reduces stress, improves energy, supports thyroid and nervous system
2) BRAHMI VATI= 1 tab twice daily with water in morning and night for 3 months =enhances memory, attention and reduces overthinking
3) SARASWATARISHTA= 15ml with equal water after meals for 3 months =nourishes mind, strengthens nerves, relieves depression
4) DRAKSHARISHTA= 15 ml with water after lunch and dinner for 6 months =tonic for anemia, digestion and blood strength
5) PUNARNAVADI MANDUR= 1 tab twice daily after meals with warm water for 3 months =treats anemiaand weakness
6) MANAS MITRA VATAKAM = 1 tab at night with milk for 3 months =deep mental rejuvinator, improves sleep, reduces suicidal thoughts
EXTERNAL TREATMENT-AT CLINIC
1) SHIRODHARA= warm oil poured gently on forehead =calms mind, nervous system , sleep disorders, anxiety
2) ABHYANGA(oilmassage ) + SWEDANA (steam therapy)= relieves stress, body ache, improves circulation
3) TAKRADHARA= buttermilk treatment for mood and hormonal balance
YOGA AND PRANAYAM(daily 30-40 mins) Avoid intense workouts. Focus on slow, mindful movement and breath
ASANAS RECOMMENDED(3-5 mins each) -balasana -viparita karani -paschimottanasana -setu bandhasana -shavasana
PRANAYAM -Anulom Vilom= 5-7 mins, balances left right brain, relieves stress -bhramari= 5 mins, calms mind. instantly -sheetali/sheetkari= 3-4 mins, cools mind , relieves anger and anxiety try 10 minutes of silent mediation or mantra chanting after this
DIET RECOMMENDATIONS
GENERALLY -warm, cooked, soft, easy to digest foods -avoid cold , dry, spicy, deep fried items -eat on time, without skipping meals
BEST FOODS
IRON RICH= dates, jaggery, raisins, sesame seeds, spinach, beetroot
PROTEIN RICH= moong dal, milk, soaked almonds, ghee
BLOOD BUILDING= pomegranate juice, beetroot juice, carrot juice
NOURISHING= khichdi, ghee, warm milk with turmeric and dates
HERBAL TEAS= tulsi+brahmi+licorice (1 cup/day)
Cook food with iron utensils (like Kadhai)- it naturally increases iron content
HOME REMEDIES
1) Milk + ashwagandha + jaggery at bedtime =helps sleep, strengthens nerves
2) Beetroot + Amla juice (100ml/day) =builds blood
3) Soaked raisins + almonds+ dates in morning =imporves memory and energy
4) CHYWANPRASHA= 1 tsp daily in morning empty stomach =rejuvinates body, good for mental clarity
PLEASE REMEMBER -what you’re experiencing is not your fault. It is a condition and it is treatablee -Ayurveda can deeply help you heal, but for severe depression or suicidal thoughts, you also need psychological support -your health matters. You deserve to heal, for yourself- and your children need a healthy, happy you.
“Take one step at a time. You’re not weak- you’re just tired. And tired people need rest, not guilt”
DO FOLLOW CONSISTENTLY
HOPE THIS. MIGHT BE HELPFUL
THANK YOU
DR. MAITRI ACHARYA
Feeling constantly irritated, having difficulty concentrating, and experiencing pervasive negative thoughts can be overwhelming, especially with the stress of managing a household. In Ayurvedic terms, these symptoms might be connected to an imbalance in the Vata dosha, which is responsible for movement, flexibility, and communication within the mind and body. A Vata imbalance can contribute to restlessness, anxiety, and fluctuating moods.
Begin by considering your daily routine. Ayurveda encourages structuring a consistent schedule to ground Vata. Try waking up and going to bed at the same-time everyday, which helps stabilize your body’s internal clock. Include simple self-care practices such as Abhyanga which is self-oil massage using warm sesame oil, as it calms and soothes the nervous system.
Diet also plays a crucial role. Favor warm, nourishing meals that balance Vata, such as cooked vegetables, whole grains like rice, and moderately spiced food. Avoid raw foods, cold drinks, caffeine, and sugar which can further disturb Vata. A glass of warm milk with a pinch of nutmeg before bed may also improve sleep quality.
Mindfulness practices like gentle yoga or breathing exercises, such as Nadi Shodhana (alternate nostril breathing), can help reduce anxiety and foster focus. Dedicate just 10-15 minutes a day to sit quietly and practice deep, abdominal breathing.
Given the feelings of loneliness and thoughts of self-harm, it is important to reach out for support. Ayurvedic practices will support your overall well-being, but professional counseling or therapy can provide necessary immediate care and a safe space to address these feelings. Please consider speaking to a therapist or reaching out to local mental health resources. Remember, seeking help is a strong and powerful step towards healing.
It is crucial to address feelings of distress and thoughts of self-harm immediately by seeking professional help from a mental health specialist. They can provide necessary support and intervention.
Within the scope of Siddha-Ayurvedic principles, the disturbances you’re feeling might be attributed to an imbalance primarily in the vata dosha, which can cause issues related to mental stability and focus. Also, stress and constant activity may reduce ojas, which affects overall vitality and mental resilience.
To help support balance and improve your mental well-being, consider the following:
1. Dinacharya (Daily Routine): Establish a calm and steady daily routine that includes regular times for waking, eating, and sleeping. This can help ground vata.
2. Diet: Favor warm, cooked foods and avoid cold, dry, or raw foods. Incorporate nourishing and grounding foods like ghee, sweet potatoes, and stews. Avoid stimulants like caffeine that can aggravate vata.
3. Herbal Support: Ashwagandha and Brahmi are two herbs traditionally recommended to support mental clarity, calmness, and vitality. You can take these in capsule or powder form as advised by an Ayurvedic practitioner.
4. Meditation and Yoga: Dedicated time in the morning or evening for simple meditation or gentle yoga can help calm the mind, enhance inner peace, and improve focus.
5. Abhyanga (Self-Massage): Use warm sesame oil for a daily self-massage. This practice helps to calm the nervous system and promote relaxation.
Nevertheless, prioritize professional psychological support. Seeking immediate help is essential to manage thoughts of loneliness or despair. Balancing lifestyle through Ayurveda can complement but not substitute professional care.

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