how to increase duration of sex - #39445
I am really struggling with something that's been bothering me for a while now. Lately, I feel like the duration of sex has been way shorter than what I (and my partner) would really like. I mean, I did some reading and found out there are ways to increase duration of sex, but I don't really know where to start. Some nights it's like, boom, done in a flash and I guess it’s a bit embarrassing, right? Last weekend, we tried to spice things up with some foreplay, but didn’t really help in increasing duration of sex – if anything, it just kind of felt like we rushed back to the main event and … yeah. 😅 I went to see my doctor, and they suggested some exercises, but honestly, I’m not sold on them. I’m curious if there are any natural methods or Ayurvedic remedies that can help? Like I read somewhere about herbs that could help with stamina or maybe even some lifestyle changes that could support increasing duration of sex? Also, should I be concerned? Do any of you have similar experiences, or tips (that actually worked) for increasing the duration of sex? Thanks for any advice, really appreciate it!
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Doctors' responses
To increase the duration of sex naturally, Ayurveda offers some practical methods that can be incorporated into your daily routine. The key is to address the underlying imbalances and enhance overall vitality, rather than just focusing on immediate performance. One fundamental principle in Ayurveda is balancing the Vata dosha, which, when aggravated, can lead to anxiety and premature ejaculation.
First, consider incorporating Ayurvedic herbs known as Rasayanas, which strengthens vitality and are traditionally used to support sexual health. Ashwagandha is highly recommended for its ability to reduce stress, increase vigor, and balance hormones. It can be taken as a powdered root with warm milk or water before bedtime. Shatavari, another powerful herb, is known to support male reproductive health and should be consumed similarly.
Diet plays a significant role too. Focus on a diet rich in whole grains, nuts such as almonds, seeds like sesame, and vegetables. Foods that are heating in nature, such as spicy or fried, should be minimized to prevent pitta imbalances. Additionally, include plenty of ghee in your diet, as it lubricates tissues and is nourishing.
Regular exercise is important, and yoga is an excellent choice for improving flexibility, reducing stress, and enhancing overall stamina. Practices such as Vajrasana (Thunderbolt Pose) strengthens the pelvis and enhances endurance. Asanas like Dhanurasana (Bow Pose) can further help strengthen pelvic muscles.
Lifestyle changes can do wonders too. Ensure you manage stress through meditation or mindfulness techniques. Sleep is essential—get at least 7 to 8 hours and try maintaining a consistent bedtime. Reducing anxiety around performance is crucial, so try engaging in activities that promote relaxation.
Limit the intake of stimulants like caffeine and avoid alcohol as these can contribute to fatigue. Smoking is also best avoided.
Start incorporating some of these changes gradually, monitor the response, and discuss with a healthcare provider if symptoms continue or worsen. Balancing the mind and body is integral to creating lasting changes and improve the duration naturally and healthily.

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