Mental Disorders
Question #18645
12 days ago
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Resentment - #18645

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For the past few years, I have been struggling with a deep sense of resentment towards certain people in my life. It started with small things—broken promises, misunderstandings, and feeling unappreciated—but over time, it has grown into something much bigger. I find myself replaying old arguments in my head, feeling anger over things that happened years ago. Even though I try to let go, I just can’t seem to move on. The worst part is that this resentment is affecting my health. I constantly feel stressed, my sleep has become irregular, and I frequently suffer from headaches and digestive issues. I’ve read that holding onto negative emotions can actually weaken the immune system and lead to serious health problems. I don’t want this to take a toll on my well-being, but I also don’t know how to release these emotions. I have tried meditation and journaling, but I always find myself going back to the same thoughts. My mind just won’t let go. I don’t want to live with this anymore. I want to feel light, happy, and free from these feelings of bitterness. Are there any Ayurvedic practices or herbal remedies that can help with emotional healing? Can Ayurveda suggest lifestyle changes or therapies to release resentment and calm the mind? I have heard that certain herbs like Brahmi and Ashwagandha can help balance emotions—should I try these? Also, does diet play a role in emotional health? Are there specific foods that can help reduce negative emotions? I would love to hear about Ayurvedic techniques or natural ways to let go of resentment so that I can start living a more peaceful and fulfilling life.

Resentment
Emotional healing in ayurveda
Ayurveda for mental health
Stress and emotions
Ayurvedic herbs for stress
Mind-body balance
Natural remedies for anger
Ayurveda and mental wellness
Holistic healing
Emotional detox
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Dr. Ayush Varma
Graduating with an MD in Ayurvedic Medicine from the All India Institute of Medical Sciences (AIIMS) in 2008, he brings over 15 years of expertise in integrative healthcare. Specializing in complex chronic conditions, including autoimmune disorders, metabolic syndromes, and digestive health, he uses a patient-centered approach that focuses on root causes. Certified in Panchakarma Therapy and Rasayana (rejuvenation), he is known for combining traditional Ayurvedic practices with modern diagnostics. Actively involved in research, he has contributed to studies on Ayurveda’s role in managing diabetes, stress, and immunity. A sought-after speaker at wellness conferences, he practices at a reputable Ayurvedic wellness center, dedicated to advancing Ayurveda’s role in holistic health and preventive care.
11 days ago
4.93
Your struggle with resentment is deeply significant and addressing it through Ayurveda can provide you with holistic support. Resentment and unresolved emotions can vitiate your doshas, particularly aggravating Vata and Pitta, leading to mental stress, digestive issues, and headaches. To initiate healing, it's essential to cultivate a lifestyle that supports emotional balance. Begin your day with a warm cup of water infused with fresh ginger and lemon to stimulate digestion and help clear your mind. Incorporate Brahmi and Ashwagandha into your routine; these herbs are known for their ability to calm the nervous system. Take Ashwagandha powder (1 teaspoon) with warm milk or water before bed and Brahmi (500 mg) in the morning for clarity and tranquility. Diet plays a crucial role; focus on Sattvic foods—those that are fresh, light, and nourishing. Include leafy greens, whole grains, and fruits while minimizing processed and fried items. To release pent-up emotion, consider integrating daily Abhyanga (self-massage) using warm sesame or coconut oil; this practice can soothe Vata and promote relaxation. Additionally, try practicing Pranayama (breath control), particularly Nadi Shodhana (alternate nostril breathing), to help calm the mind and release negativity. Engaging in gentle yoga or walking in nature will also aid in grounding your energy. Lastly, explore the practice of forgiveness; perhaps write letters to those you feel resentment towards, but you don’t need to send them—this act may help in expressing and releasing those feelings. Incorporating these recommendations consistently can empower you to shift your emotional landscape and promote overall well-being.
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