Having Premature ejaculation and Not Harder Erection - #24688
When I Get Close to my wife, I ejaculate One or two times immediately after kissing or during foreplay. But after a while when i get 3rd erection it doesnt ejaculate so quick but erection is not hard enough to penetrate vagina.
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Yavanamrita vati - 1 tab twice daily after food with lukewarm milk Shilajit sat - 1 drop with warm milk at night Do kegle exercises
Don't worry
💠 Causes - stress, fear, psychotropic drugs
Over sensitiveness
🌸 Avoid daysleep, smoking, hot and spicy foods
🌸 Avoid alcohol, pungent,salty, foods
🌱 Intake banana, pomegranate, drumstick, pumpkin, dates, amalaki, lady’s finger
🌱 Do exercise regularly. Practice yoga, pranayama, meditation
💊 MEDICINE 💊
1. Sidhamakaradvajam - 0 - 0 - 2 with milk at bed time
2. Rajatha bhasmam - 500 mg with honey morning and night after food
3. Dadimadi ghritam - 1 tspn with warm water morning and night before food
4. Narasimham tab. 1 - 0 - 1 after food
In later phase:
1. Shilajitj cap. 2 - 0 - 2 after food
2. Ashwagandha tab. 1 - 0 - 1 after food
3. Narasimharasayanam - 1 tspn with milk at bed time
💠 EXTERNAL
1. Apply body - balaashwagandhadi tailam
2. Apply penis - Ashwagandhadi thailam
Premature ejaculation and difficulties with maintaining a firm erection is a common issue, and both can be approached with Ayurvedic principles that focus on balancing your doshas, particularly Vata, and ensuring optimal Agni (digestive fire).
Firstly, understand that premature ejaculation is often connected to Vata imbalance. This imbalance can be exacerbated by stress, erratic routines and even diet. Consider incorporating more grounding foods into your diet such as root vegetables, warm, nourishing dishes and spices like cumin and cardamom. These help in stabilizing Vata.
Ashwagandha, a renowned adaptogen, is recommended. Take it in powder form, about 5 grams a day with warm milk before bed—it’s known for its calming properties and ability to improve stamina and overall vitality. Mucuna pruriens (kapikachhu) is another herb known to support sexual health. You can take it in a similar fashion with warm milk.
Maintaining a consistent daily routine is grately beneficial, rising and going to bed at the same time each day reinforces your body’s natural rhythms and supporting balance. Engage in daily Abhyanga (self-massage) with sesame oil; it can be calming to the nervous system and help reduce anxiety, which often contributes to performance issues.
For the difficulty you face with erection firmness after initial ejaculation, it could relate to Pitta imbalance. Monitor triggers like spicy food, alcohol or excessive heat as these can aggravate Pitta. Regular practice of cooling breathing exercises like Shitali or Sheetkari pranayam might help.
Avoid excessive performance pressure on yourself, which can lead to mental stress. Yoga postures like Supta Baddha Konasana or Savasana is helpful and supports mental relaxation, also promoting overall balance.
If these symptoms persist, a personalized consultation with an Ayurvedic practitioner or a healthcare provider may provide further insights tailored to your unique constitution and needs.
Avoid addiction if any. Regular exercise and meditation. Increase intake of raw vegetables and fruits. Tab.Confido 2-0-2 Tab.Neo 2-0-2 Cap.Stresscom 1-0-1
You have to change your life style
* Meditation, yoga, pranayama is beneficial
* Do regular exercise like walking, cycling, swimming
* Avoid salty, sour, spicy, junkfoods, pungent, hot foods
* Avoid excessive use of electronic devices * Sleep well night , balanced diet, plenty of fruits, vegetables

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