What do do to enhance my sex life - #31464
I don't have erection on my own until I see the nakedness of my partner. During intercourse the penis strenght is very weak. Afer ejaculation I will not have erection again until one or two days. I don't have diabetes, I don't smoke


Doctors’ responses
Start with Divya Cap Ashwashila 1-0-1 after food with water Divya youvanamrit gold 1-0-1 Both after food with water Apply ashwagandha bala oil/ Shilajit oil on penis externally twice daily.
Hello Adimie, I recommend the following treatment plan for you - Treatment - 1. Chandraprabha vati -2-0-2 after meal 2. Yauvanamrit vati-2-0-2 after meal 3. Shilajit sat- 2 drops in milk at bedtime 4. Medha vati-1-0-1 after meal 5. Baidyanath Vita EX oil - For local application and massage.
Diet- Eat dates, raisins, soaked and peeled almonds. Eat foods that increase Nitric oxide levels include: Green leafy vegetables Citrus fruits Nuts and seeds Pomegranates, banana Garlic
Yoga- Ardha matasyendrasana , pavanmuktasan , bhujangasan, sarvangasan,pelvic floor exercises,kegel exercise. Lifestyle modifications - .Stop addiction especially smoking. .Strength training to boost testosterone. .Stress management -Through meditation walking journaling gardening.
Follow these and you will definitely get results. Don’t hesitate to reach out for any further query. Regards, Dr. Anupriya
Let’s explore some Ayurveda-based approaches that could help manage the symptoms you’ve outlined. According to Ayurvedic principles, it’s important to consider factors such as your dosha balance and the health of your dhatus. The weak erection could indicate a Vata imbalance, which can affect the reproductive system.
Firstly, nourishing the shukra dhatu (the reproductive tissue) is essential. You can include foods that are considered aphrodisiac in Ayurveda, such as almonds, walnuts, figs, saffron, and sesame seeds. These help in nurturing the reproductive tissue and increasing virility. Adding them to your daily diet, preferably as a morning routine, can be beneficial.
Ashwagandha is a well-known adaptogenic herb that enhances stamina and increases energy levels. It’s recommended to take about a teaspoon of Ashwagandha powder with warm milk, ideally in the evening. This not only aids sexual health but also helps to calm Vata dosha, thereby stabilizing energy levels.
Regular exercise is crucial. Consider daily yoga or brisk walking for about 30 minutes. Practicing specific yoga asanas like Bhujangasana (Cobra Pose) and Dhanurasana (Bow Pose) can be helpful in improving circulation to the pelvic region and boosting vitality.
Your mental state also plays a significant role in sexual function. Stress and anxiety are big contributors to sexual health issues. Meditation and pranayama, like Anulom Vilom (alternate nostril breathing), can greatly aid in calming mind and reducing anxiety.
Ensure adequate sleep of around 7-8 hours nightly, as rest is fundamental for rejuvenation and maintaining balanced body functions. Avoiding stimulants like caffeine especially in the evening can also enhance sleep quality.
If the issue persists or worsens, it could be wise to seek a consultation with a healthcare professional or an Ayurvedic doctor, as sometimes these symptoms might suggest a deeper underlying condition. Don’t delay in getting medical advice if you feel it’s necessary.
Weak erections and decreased sexual stamina may relate to imbalances in your doshas, particularly vata and pitta, affecting your shukra dhatu (reproductive tissue). Begin by evaluating your daily routine and diet. Excessive stress or irregular habits can amplify vata disturbances. Aim for consistency in meals and sleep, prioritizing warm, nourishing foods like whole grains, ghee, nuts, and seeds to strengthen agni.
An effective herb to support shukra dhatu is Ashwagandha, well-known in Siddha practice for promoting vitality. Take 1-2 teaspoons of Ashwagandha powder with warm milk before bedtime. Another herb, Shatavari, might help. Consider adding it to your regimen: 1 teaspoon with warm water twice daily could balance pitta.
Mindful breathing exercises can calm the mind, reducing performance anxiety linked to vata imbalances. Try Nadi Shodhana (alternate nostril breathing) for 10 minutes, twice a day.
Adjust any strenuous physical activities, as they may further deplete your energies. Yoga postures such as Sethu Bandhasana (Bridge pose) and Bhujangasana (Cobra pose) can encourage better circulation and energy flow through the nadis, sustaining erection quality.
If there’s a persistent lack or worsening symptoms, consulting a healthcare specialist for a closer examination would be prudent to rule out other possible causes.
Implementing these steps should gently restore your balance, though remember that results may take time and patience.

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