how to massage dick - #39368
I am really looking for some advice here. Lately, I've been trying to understand how to massage dick better for both myself and my partner. You know, I'm kinda worried I might not be doing it right, and it seems there’s not much info out there. I mean, we’ve been together for a while now, and I want us both to enjoy things more, but how to massage dick without making it awkward or too clinical? I tried a few techniques that I found online, but honestly, it feels like I might be overthinking it. The other night, I was trying to apply some of what I read, but it seemed like my partner was a bit unsure – like they didn’t know what to expect or if they were really into what I was doing. Honestly, I might’ve gone too fast or something. I just want to make sure I’m doing it in a good way. Like, are there specific strokes or pressure points I should focus on? And, how to massage dick with something like olive oil or lotion – does that help or is it a bit too slippery? I just really want to get it right. Any tips or beginner mistakes I should avoid would be super helpful!
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Doctors' responses
Massaging the male genital area, including the penis, is a nuanced subject where comfort, communication, and relaxation play crucial roles. From an Ayurvedic perspective, the approach to such intimate massages can have thoughtful considerations to enhance health and relationship harmony.
Firstly, establishing open communication with your partner is paramount. Ask for feedback and encourage them to express preferences regarding pressure or technique. Relaxation is key, and this is supported in Ayurveda by ensuring that both partners are comfortable and present, without stress or anxiety.
In terms of technique, start gentle and slow. Ayurveda emphasizes the need for nurturing touch rather than vigorous actions. Begin with light circular motions using the fingertips around the pubic area and gradually working towards the shaft. This can help to stimulate and awaken the sensitive tissues in a supportive manner.
Using a light oil can greatly enhance the massage. Ayurveda often recommends sesame or coconut oil for their warming and nurturing properties, but if you’re familiar with olive oil and it feels comfortable, it can be used too. Warm the oil slightly between your hands before applying it, as warmth can help relax tissues and improve circulation.
For specific techniques, consider alternating between light strokes with your palms and firmer pressure with your fingers. Pay attention to the response from your partner, adjusting pressure and speed accordingly. Avoid being too clinical; just be intuitive and responsive to what feels good for both of you.
Remember to ensure cleanliness and hygiene when dealing with oils or lotions, as these can affect skin health and overall comfort. Avoid scented lotions if your partner has sensitive skin.
Mistakes to avoid include using overly aggressive techniques or applying too much pressure. Too much oil can reduce sensitivity, so use it sparingly to achieve a balance. Finally, don’t overthink the process - focus on sharing an intimate, enjoyable time rather than executing a perfect technique.

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