how to stop premature ejaculation - #42420
I am really struggling with this issue and it’s super embarrassing to talk about. Like, I’ve been noticing that I have been dealing with premature ejaculation for a while now. It started after my last relationship ended badly, and honestly, ever since then I’ve been feeling really anxious when it comes to intimacy. Like, one time I went on a date, and everything was goin’ well, but when we got to that point, I just couldn’t control it and it was a total disaster. Ugh!!! I tried like breathing exercises and even some techniques that I looked up, but nothing really seems to help. I’m wondering if there are any Ayurvedic solutions or remedies on how to stop premature ejaculation that I could try? I’ve heard about things like herbs, oils, or even diet changes but I don’t really know where to start. Should I be trying to focus on calming my mind too, or is it more about physical treatments? I’ve read that stress can contribute to it but sometimes it’s just like the pressure makes it worse. Help! I really want to get back to enjoying intimacy without this hanging over my head. I’m looking for advice on how to stop premature ejaculation naturally because I’d prefer not to go the pharmaceutical route if possible. Any suggestions would be awesome! Thank you.
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Doctors' responses
Managing premature ejaculation, especially when stress and anxiety is involved, is quite a challenge but Ayurveda offers some promising pathways. In your case, it would be beneficial to consider both mind calmin’ techniques and physical treatments due to the interplay between the mental and the physical aspects of this condition.
First, let’s talk about diet. Incorporating certain foods can enhance one’s sexual health. Foods like bananas, asparagus, almonds, and walnuts, ghee, are great for nourishing your reproductive tissues, called shukra dhatu in Ayurveda. They are known to offer support and nourishment. Additionally, try sipping on warm turmeric milk in the evenings or consuming soaked fig, as these can balance your doshas (bodily humors) which contribute to premature ejaculation.
Herbs play a significant role too. Herbs like Ashwagandha and Shatavari are known for their adaptogenic properties, meaning they help your body manage stress—one of the core issues you’re dealing with. Ashwagandha can be taken as a powder mixed with warm milk, ideally twice a day. Shatavari can be consumed in a similar manner or as part of your meals.
Additionally, Ayurvedic oils, such as Bala oil or Ashwagandha oil, can be beneficial when used in a daily routine called Abhyanga, which involves self-massage. This not only helps relax the nervous system but also enhances circulation and strengthens your dhatus.
Stress management is indeed crucial. Regular practice of yoga and Pranayama (breathing exercises) tailored towards relaxation and grounding, like the cooling ‘Sheetali’ breathing can create calmer nerves and confidence. Marrying these to mindfulness strategies can drastically reduce performance anxiety. For maximum benefit, try to meditate every day, even if it’s just for a few minutes initially.
Lastly, avoid spicy, overly processed foods and caffeine - these are known to provoke the pitta dosha which may contribute to the problem. Following a regular daily schedule, maintaining regular bedtimes and wake times, are also part of balancing Vata dosha — often linked to anxiety and nerves.
Taking steps in both dietary lifestyle changes and mental relaxation can slowly bring back steadiness in your intimate experiences. But remember, it might take a little time and consistency. If you notice no improvement or things persist, do consider consulting with an Ayurvedic practitioner for a personalized assessment.

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