I am facing premature ejaculation. While having sex with my partner I am not able to last long - #32529
I am facing premature ejaculation. While having sex with my partner I am not able to last long. How to last longer and give full satisfaction to my parner. I am having sex wearing condom but it is still not delaying my ejaculation.
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No need to worry,
First of all avoid excessive spicy, sour,salty food etc.
And start taking these medications, 1.Ashwagandha choorna 1tsf with lukewarm milk twice in a day. 2.Atamgupta choorna 1tsf with lukewarm milk at bed time only. 3.Shilajeet gold cap.1-0-1 4.Tab.Neo 1-1-1
*Daily Massage your full body with Balaashwagandhadi oil.
Follow up after 1 month.
Take care 🙂
Kind Regards, Dr.Isha Ashok Bhardwaj.
HELLO UGANDA,
Premature ejaculation occurs when a man ejaculates too early during sex – often within a minute of penetration – and cannot control it.
In Ayurveda, premature ejaculation is primarily caused by: -Aggravation of Vata, especially Apana Vata = controls semen ejaculation. -Shukra Kshaya – low vitality of reproductive tissues -Mental doshas such as Chinta (anxiety), Bhaya (fear), and Tama (mental dullness)
These lead to loss of control over ejaculation, weakness in nerve and muscle coordination, and reduced semen quality.
Start internally
1) Ashwagandha Churna – 1 tsp with warm milk twice a day, morning and night for 3-6 months =Adaptogen, reduces stress, strengthens reproductive organs.
2) Kaunch Beej Churna – 1 tsp with honey + milk twice a day for 3-4 months =Increases libido, sperm quality, and stamina.
3) Shilajit Capsule (Swarna)- 1 capsule once a day with lukewarm milk for 2-3 months =Aphrodisiac, Energetic, Balances Vata and Kapha.
4) Safed Musli Churna- 5 minutes twice daily with warm milk =Powerful aphrodisiac herb for potency and semen thickening
5) Vrihat Chintamani Rasa- 125mg with honey at night =Nervous weakness, excessive Vata, tremors, mental debility
6) Confido Tablet (Himalaya)- 1 tablet twice daily =Reduces performance anxiety, improves control over ejaculation
External Use
1) Ashwagandha Bal Oil - Massage the base of the penis, thighs and lower abdomen daily - For 5-10 minutes - Do not apply on the tip of the penis or the entrance of the urethra = Strengthens the nerves and improves blood flow
2) Shukra Vardhak Lepa- Local herbal paste - Apply on the pubic area or inner thighs- not directly on the genitals
Diet - Dairy = Milk, Ghee, Paneer - Nourishes the Shukra Dhatu
- Dry Fruits = Soaked Roasted almonds, walnuts and figs - Improves sperm count and energy
-Vegetables = Carrots, beetroot, spinach - Increases blood and vitality
-Spices = Asparagus, saffron, cardamom - Aphrodisiac and calming
-Sweet tastes = Rice, jaggery, dates - Build ojas and shukra
Avoid these completely
-Tea, coffee, alcohol, smoking
-junk food, processed food
-Excessively spicy or sour things
-Cold, stale or fermented food
-Night vigil (Rathi jagran)
Now comes the most important part to follow
1) Kegel Exercise (Mula Bandha in yoga) Purpose - Strengthen the pelvic floor muscles which help in erection and semen control
How to do- -Sit/lie down and tighten the muscles you use to stop urination midstream -Hold for 5-10 seconds, then release 1) Yoga Asanas for Sexual Power -Repeat 15-20 times, 3 sets daily - morning, afternoon, night
Advanced - Try Kegel contractions during arousal, foreplay or urine control to strengthen ejaculation delay
2) Pelvic Thrust Exercise (Bridge Pose) -Lie on back, knees bent, feet flat -Raise hips up while contracting buttocks and holding core -Hold for 10 seconds and release -Repeat 15 times*3 sets
3) Yoga Asanas for Sexual Power -Bhujangasana= Improves pelvic blood circulation -Paschimittasana= Improves semen quality -Vajrasana after meals= Improves digestion and shukra dhatu -Ashwini Mudra (Anal Restriction)= Controls premature ejaculation
#Pranayama- Do 10-15 minutes daily -Anulom Vilom- Nervous balance -Bhramari- Calms the mind, Reduces overexcitement -Udgeeth- Increases confidence + ojas
#Emotional & Mental Balance What issues you might be facing- -Fear of disappointing your partner -Guilt due to past failed experiences -Excessive dependence on porn/artificial triggers -Fatigue due to lack of sleep/diet
What to do -Accept it- Sexual weakness is reversible, don’t panic -Communicate- Emotional intimacy > physical performance -Enjoy slow foreplay- Don’t rush -Practice celibacy-based detox- Abstinence (no sex, no masturbation, no stimulation) for 10-15 days, then gradual return -Sleep at least 7 hours a night everyday -Strictly avoid porn and excessive masturbation
Final advice -Start this protocol, continue for 8-12 weeks and see visible improvement within 1 week -Relieve performance stress Avoid
-Stay natural, stay grounded and commit to the treatment.
Follow this regularly,
Hope this will be helpful
Thanks
Dr. Maitri Acharya
Avoid addiction if any. Regular exercise. Increase intake of raw vegetables and fruits. Tab. Confido 2-0-2 Count Plus 15gms twice with milk Follow up after 4weeks.
1. Aswagandharishtam 15 ml just after food twice daily. 2. Bala aswagandhadi tailam for external application. 3. Vajitone tablet 1 at night with milk.

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