how to deal with premature ejaculation - #24925

HELLO EVELYN Premature ejaculation is when a man ejaculates too early during sexual activity- often within 1 minute of penetration- and is unable to control it. In Ayurveda, PE is mainly due to -Vata aggravation, especially Apana vata= controls semen ejaculation. -Shukra kshaya- low reproductive tissue vitality -Manasika doshas like china(worry), bhaya(fear), and Tama(mental dullness) These lead to loss of control over ejaculation, weakness in nervous and muscular coordination, and reduced semen quality INTERNALLY START WITH 1)ASHWAGANDHA CHURNA- 1 tsp with warm milk twice daily, morning and night for 3-6 months =adaptogen, reduces stress, strengthens reproductive organs 2)KAUNCH BEEJ CHURNA- 1 tsp twice daily with honey+milk for 3-4 months =boosts libido, sperm quality, stamina 3)SHILAJIT CAPSULE(GOLD)- 1 cap once daily with lukewarm milk for 2-3 months =aphrodisiac, energy booster, balances vata and kapha 4)SAFED MUSLI CHURNA- 5 fm twice daily with warm milk =potent vajikaran herb fr strength and semen thickening 5)VRIHAT VATCHINTAMANI RAS- 125 mg with honey at night =nervine weakness, excessive vata, tremors, psychological weakness 6)CONFIDO TABLET(HIMALAYA)- 1 tab twice daily =reduces performance anxiety, increases control over ejaculation EXTERNAL APPLICATIONS 1)ASHWAGANDHA BALA TAILA -massage penis base, thighs and lower abdomen daily -for 5-10 min -do not apply on glans(tip) or urethral opening =strengthens nerves and improves blood flow 2)SHUKRA VARDHAK LEPA- local herbal paste -apply on pubic region or inner thighs- not on private part directly DIET -DAIRY= milk, ghee, panner- nourishes shukra dhatu -DRY FRUITS= almonds soaked, walnuts and figs- improve sperm and energy -VEGETABLES= carrots, beetroot, spinach- boost blood and vitality -SPICES= shatavari, saffron, cardamon- aphrodisiac and calming -SWEET TASTES= rice, jaggery, dates- builds Ojas and shukra AVOID STRICTLY -tea, coffee,aclohol, smoking -junk food, processed food -excessive spicy or sour items -cold,stale or fermented food -night awakening(Rathi jagran) NOW COMES THE MOST IMPORTANT PART TO FOLLOW 1)KEGEL EXERCISES(MOOLA BANDHA IN YOGA) PURPOSE- STRENGTHEN PELVIC FLOOR MUSCLES THAT SUPPORT ERECTION AND SEMEN CONTROL HOW TO DO- -SIT/LIE DOWN AND TIGTHEN THE MUSCLES YOU USE TO STOP URINE MID STREAM -HOLD FOR 5-10 SECONDS, THEN RELEASE -REPEAT 15-20 TIMES, 3 SETS DAILY-MORNING,AFTERNOON,NIGHT ADVANCED- TRY KEGEL CONTRACTIONS SURING AROUSAL , FOREPLAY, OR URINATION CONTROL TO STRENGTHEN EJACULATION DELAY 2)PELVIC THRUST EXERCISE(BRIDGE POSE) -LIE ON BACK, BEND KNEES, FEET FLAT -RAISE HIPS UPWARDS WHILE SQUEEZING BUTTOCKS AND HOLDING CORE -HOLD FOR 10 SECONDS AND RELEASE -DO 15 REPS*3 SETS 3)YOGA ASANA FOR SEXUAL STRENGTH -BHUJANGASANA=BOOSTS PELVIC CIRCULATION -PASCHIMITTANASANA= INCREASES SEMEN QUALITY -VAJRASANA AFTER MEALS= IMPROVES DIGESTION AND SHUKRA DHATU -ASHWINI MUDRA(ANAL LOCK)=CONTROLS PREMATURE EJACULATION #PRANAYAM-DO 10-15 MIN DAILY -ANULOM VILOM- NERVE BALANCING -BHRAMARI- CALMS MIND, REDUCES OVER EXCITEMENT -UDGEETH- CONFIDENCE+OJAS BOOSTING #EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL BALANCE WHAT YOU MAY BE FACING- -FEAR OF DISAPPOINTING PARTNER -GUILT OVER PAST FAILED EXPERIENCES -OVERDEPENDENCE ON PORN/ARTIFICIAL TRIGGERS -TIREDNESS FROM LACK OF SLEEP/DIET WHAT TO DO -ACCEPT IT- SEXUAL WEAKNESS IS REVERSIBLE , DONT PANIC -TALK- EMOTIONAL INTIMACY>PHYSICAL PERFORMANCE -ENJOY SLOW FOREPLAY-DON'T RUSH -PRACTICE BRAHMACHARYA-BASED DETOX- 10-15 DAYS ABSTINENCE(NO SEXUAL ACT, NO MASTURBATION,NO AROUSAL), THEN SLOW RETURN -SLEEP MINIMUM 7 HORS DAILY AT NIGHT -AVOID PORN, OVER MASTURBATION STRICTLY FINAL ADVICE -START THIS PROTOCOL FOR 8-12 WEEKS AND SEE VISIBLE IMPROVEMENT IN 1 WEEK -AVOID PERFORMANCE STRESS -STAY NATURAL,GROUNDED, AND COMMITTED TO HEALING. DO FOLLOW CONSISTENTLY, HOPE THIS MIGHT BE HELPFUL THANK YOU DR. MAITRI ACHARYA

Premature ejaculation can be understandably distressing, but it’s important to approach it holistically according to Ayurveda, focusing on balancing the mind and body. This often involves understanding the doshas—Vata, Pitta, and Kapha—and identifying which imbalances might be contributing to the issue. Premature ejaculation is frequently linked with increased Vata, causing heightened nervous system activity, or Pitta, leading to excess heat and sensitivity. First, let’s consider the dietary changes. Favor foods that pacify Vata, such as warm, moist, and oily meals. Foods like ghee, milk, almonds, and sweet fruits can be beneficial. Avoid caffeine and processed foods, as they might exacerbate anxiety or over-stimulation. Include herbs like Ashwagandha and Shatavari in your daily regimen. Ashwagandha has grounding properties which can calm the nervous system, reducing anxiety levels. Shatavari is known for boosting stamina and vitality. These can be taken in tablet or powdered form but consult with a practitioner for the appropriate dosage. On the lifestyle side of things, a regular routine is crucial for balancing Vata. Wake up and have meals at the same time each day. Consider incorporating Abhyanga, or self-massage with warm, sesame oil before showering—it’s great for soothing the nervous system. For mental calmness, meditation or pranayama (breathing exercises) like Anulom Vilom can help decrease anxiety. Try practicing these before bed or throughout the day when feeling stressed. Focus on slow, intentional breaths which may naturally extend climax timing. From a relationship standpoint, honest and open communication with your partner can mitigate much of the psychological stress associated with performance anxiety. Shared meditation or yoga can also enhance emotional bonding, turning concerns into collaborative solutions. It’s worth mentioning though, while these suggestions can be helpful, if you continue experiencing issues, seeking advice from a healthcare provider familiar with both Ayurveda and conventional medicine can offer additional insights tailored to your unique constitution.