Anxiety to perform sex causing ED - #30928
I have a bit tight foreskin where my foreskin doesn't gets pulled back completely over glans when erect. So this made me very anxiousand has developed ED. I always look at my penis erect time instead of enjoying the foreplay and sex. Please advice how to overcome.
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To retract the foreskin put coconut oil on tip of penis externally and try pulling foreskin down slowly.stop when pains, do this 3-4 times per day. Start with Divya Cap Ashwashila 1-0-1 after food with water Divya youvanamrit gold 0-0-1 at bedtime with warm milk Apply ashwagandha bala oil/ Shilajit oil on penis externally twice daily
Your concern about tight foreskin, medically known as phimosis, is not uncommon and can indeed lead to anxiety surrounding sexual activity. This anxiety, in turn, can sometimes manifest as erectile dysfunction (ED). Approaching this situation through Ayurvedic principles might help in alleviating both your physical and mental discomforts.
First, addressing the tight foreskin itself is crucial. Ayurvedic practices suggest gentle oil massage which can help in gradually loosening the foreskin over time. You can apply a warm, infused oil such as shatavari oil, which is known for its moisturizing and soothing properties. While in a relaxed state, gently massage this into the foreskin skin regularly. Be careful not to force it back too quickly, as this can cause damage.
In terms of ED and performance anxiety, controlling Vata dosha is key, as anxiety is often linked to Vata imbalances. Incorporate grounding and warming foods into your diet like whole grains, cooked vegetables, nuts like almonds and walnuts. Avoid spicy and overly stimulating foods which can exacerbate anxiety. Regularly consume ashvagandha powder with warm milk, known for its adaptogenic properties helping reduce anxiety and improve overall vigor.
Proper breathing techniques such as pranayama and practicing yoga can also help calm the mind. Specific poses such as Vajrasana and Padmasana can help bring balance to Vata while enhancing pelvic health. Consider consulting with an Ayurvedic practitioner who can offer a more personalized regimen, tailored to your unique constitution.
Additionally, managing stress through meditation and daily routines (dinacharya) can be effective. Try to set a consistent sleep schedule and include moments of relaxation throughout your day. This holistic approach can alleviate anxiety and support your sexual health. If the problem persists, it might be worthwhile to also consult with a healthcare professional or a urologist for further evaluation and treatment options.

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