what should we eat before sex - #37716
I am really trying to figure out what should we eat before sex ’cause my partner and I have been noticing that we feel kind of sluggish lately. It’s weird, like sometimes after dinner, we just wanna flop on the couch instead of getting all romantic. We had this one evening where we had a huge pasta meal with garlic bread? Not the best choice, now that I'm thinking about it, but we thought it would be comforting. Turns out it made us feel super heavy. Then there was this other time we went for sushi, and I actually felt great afterwards! Maybe it was the freshness? But then again, I read somewhere that some foods can really boost mood and energy, and we wanna explore that. We enjoy trying new meals together, and having a little sexy meal prep feels fun! What should we eat before sex to really boost our vibes? Do spicy foods help, or is that just an old wives' tale? I’ve heard fruits like bananas and strawberries could be good too? But then, what if we’re both craving something savory or hearty? I feel so confused sometimes with all this info. Any tips would be seriously appreciated!
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Doctors' responses
What you eat can indeed play a significant role in how you feel, especially when it comes to being intimate. Ayurveda offers a rich understanding of how different foods influence our energy levels, mood, and overall vitality, which are critical when preparing for an enjoyable romantic experience.
For a light pre-intimacy meal, it’s best to focus on foods that are easy to digest, nourish the body without overburdening your system. Heavy meals like pasta and garlic bread can indeed leave you feeling sluggish because they’re more taxing on digestive fire, or “agni,” according to Ayurveda. Instead, opt for lean proteins like grilled fish or chicken—these are known to provide energy without weighing you down.
Fruits are a fantastic choice as well, given their natural sugars can elevate mood and energy. Consider sharing a platter of fresh, seasonal fruits together. Bananas, for instance, are high in potassium and vitamin B6, which can enhance stamina. Strawberries not only lift mood but are packed with antioxidants.
Spicy foods might seem enticing for some but could disrupt your digestive balance, especially if you or your partner tend to have a Pitta constitution, which tends to run hot. So it’s best to moderate spicy consumption.
If you’re craving something savory or more hearty, consider incorporating nuts like almonds—steep them in warm water overnight to ease digestion. They’re a power-packed source of good fats and nutrients.
Also, try to stay hydrated with water or herbal teas like ginger or peppermint. They aid digestion and keep you refreshed.
To ensure energy levels are optimal, including complex carbohydrates like whole grains in small quantities can be good too.
Remember, the key is to enjoy the meal and feel light enough to engage in intimacy without indigestion, so moderation is vital. Eating mindfully and focusing on the sensations can elevate the experience further, making the moments more about shared pleasure and less about the meal itself.

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