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Sexual Health & Disorders
Question #38691
114 days ago
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how to increase intercourse time - #38691

Zoey

I am really worried about my performance in the bedroom. It’s been kinda stressful lately, y’know? My partner and I have been together for a while, and we both want to enjoy things more, but we’re finding that I tend to finish way too quick, like, WAY too quick. I’ve read some things about how to increase intercourse time but not sure what’s legit or just exaggerated online. Last weekend we tried some things, like different positions and even some breathing techniques I found on a random forum, but nothing felt like it worked. It felt frustrating, and I felt embarrassed, to be honest! I mean, my partner loves me and all, but I can see the disappointment sometimes. That's def not what I want, right? I know there's gotta be better ways out there. Like, are there specific herbs or natural remedies for this? I’ve been thinking maybe yoga could help or even dietary changes that promote stamina or libido. Would love to hear any advice on practices or products that could truly help me on how to increase intercourse time because I wanna make my partner feel good and confident too! Any recommendations?

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Understood. Stress and performance anxiety often contribute to premature ejaculation, and while it might seem disheartening, Ayurveda offers some practical approaches that you may find beneficial. Ayurveda views such concerns within the context of vata imbalance, influencing the nervous system and often needing a balanced mind to support physical connection.

Start by incorporating some practices that help calm the mind and reduce anxiety. Simple meditation and pranayama – specifically, deep breathing techniques like Nadi Shodhana (alternate nostril breathing) and Shitali – can help soothe the nervous system. These practices should be done regularly for over 5-10 minutes daily to see gradual improvement.

Dietary changes are also significant. Emphasize on consuming warm, nourishing foods that help ground vata, like whole grains, warming spices such as ginger and cinnamon, seasoned stews, and soups. Consider ghee (clarified butter) in small amounts for its grounding qualities in meals.

Specific herbs can support reproductive health. Ashwagandha, known for its adaptogenic properties, reduces stress and promotes stamina. Take Ashwagandha powder, approximately 1 teaspoon with warm milk, before bed. Shilajit is another mineral-rich resin renowned for improving vitality — available in resin or capsule, taken according to product instructions.

Yoga postures that focus on the pelvic region, such as Malasana (Garland Pose), Uttanapadasana (Raised Legs Pose), and Bhujangasana (Cobra Pose), help increase blood flow to the pelvis and enhance that energy. Practicing yoga under a trained teacher can yield better results.

Ensure you are also well-hydrated and get enough rest at night, as fatigue can influence performance too. While these ancient practices hold promise, if issues persist despite efforts, consulting a healthcare professional for further guidance is important.

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Intercourse duration can be linked to several factors, both physical and mental. From an Ayurvedic standpoint, it’s essential to look at imbalances in the doshas, especially Vata and Pitta, which can affect sexual stamina.

Firstly, consider incorporating the herb Ashwagandha into your daily routine. It is known for its adaptogenic properties, helping the body manage stress and potentially improving stamina. You could take it in powder form, about 1 teaspoon mixed with warm milk and a bit of honey, in the evening.

Focus on diet as well. A balanced diet that strengthens the dhatus, particularly the Shukra dhatu (reproductive tissue), can aid in increasing stamina. Include foods that are heavy, oily, and nourishing like ghee, dates, almonds, and saffron. These can boost energy and vitality. Limit spicy and overly salty foods, which might aggravate Pitta.

Yoga can be quite beneficial. Postures like the butterfly pose (Baddha Konasana) and cobra pose (Bhujangasana) can enhance energy flow in the lower body, promoting better circulation to the pelvic area.

Pranayama, specifically alternate nostril breathing (Nadi Shodhana), can help balance the mind and reduce stress. Do this for 5–10 minutes a day.

It’s important to address any underlying stress or anxiety as they are significant factors in performance. Consider mindfulness or meditation practices to cultivate relaxation and presence.

Lastly, avoid heavy meals right before intimacy. A light, easily digestible meal 2-3 hours prior would be ideal. If these methods don’t result in improvement, a consultation with a healthcare professional might be necessary to rule out other underlying issues.

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