temper tantrum - #17360

For the past few months, I’ve been noticing that my 4-year-old has been throwing temper tantrums more often, and they’re getting harder to manage. These tantrums often occur when he doesn’t get his way or when he’s told no, and sometimes they last for several minutes. It’s not just the typical “no” or “crying,” but he kicks, screams, and even throws things. I’ve tried to remain calm and use time-outs or distractions, but nothing seems to work consistently. I’m starting to feel frustrated and exhausted by the situation, and I’m worried that it might be an issue that will only get worse as he grows older if I don’t handle it properly. I’m wondering if these temper tantrums are just a normal part of his development, or if they could be signs of something deeper, like behavioral or emotional problems. My pediatrician says it’s normal for kids his age to throw tantrums as they are learning to deal with their emotions, but I feel like we’re hitting a wall and not making any progress. I’ve also noticed that temper tantrums seem to occur more frequently when he’s tired, hungry, or overstimulated. I’ve tried to stick to a consistent bedtime routine and feed him balanced meals, but there are still moments when nothing seems to help. Does anyone have advice on how to better handle temper tantrums? Are there strategies or techniques that have worked for you, especially in terms of preventing them or calming your child down more quickly? I’ve been reading about some natural ways to manage emotional outbursts in children, and I wonder if there are any holistic or Ayurvedic remedies that might help him become more emotionally balanced. Could herbs like Ashwagandha or Brahmi be helpful for kids in managing stress or emotional regulation, or is it better to stick to behavioral techniques? Has anyone else gone through a similar situation with temper tantrums? How did you manage them, and did you find that the tantrums naturally decreased with age, or did you need to make specific changes to your approach?