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Sexual Health & Disorders
Question #36265
108 days ago
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how to do penis massage - #36265

Riley

I am really confused about how to do penis massage. I've read a few articles, but nothing seems clear. Last week, I was talking to some friends and they mentioned it could help with sensitivity issues and maybe even improve performance. I feel like I could really use that, honestly! Been feeling kinda stressed about my sex life lately, and it hasn’t been what I hoped. My partner is supportive, but I think learning how to do penis massage could help me feel more confident and relaxed. I want to find some techniques that can enhance pleasure, you know? Sometimes I get all mixed up about whether this is just about physical sensation or if there’s more to it. Like, can how to do penis massage be something that also connects with my mental state or something? I wanna be sure I'm not doing it wrong and hurting myself instead of helping. Anyone have tips or resources? Are there certain oils or techniques that work better? And, like, how often should someone do this to see an improvement? Would love any advice since this all feels a bit overwhelming right now. Thanks!!

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Penis massage, or Vajikarana massage in the context of Ayurveda, can indeed be beneficial for improving sensitivity, enhancing sexual performance, and boosting confidence. First, understand that this method is not solely about physical stimulation. It also nurtures your mental well-being, providing relaxation and reducing stress. However, it’s essential to practice it safely and correctly to avoid any harm.

You can use specific Ayurvedic oils known for their healing properties and ability to enhance male vitality. Oils like Ashwagandha Bala oil or Shatavari oil are preferred, as they support the tissues (dhatus), enhance circulation, and support healthy sexual function. When choosing an oil, try to find one that suits your body type or constitution (prakriti) if you’re familiar with it.

Start by warming the oil slightly, checking that it’s not too hot by testing it on your inner wrist. Application should be gentle and mindful, focusing on the entire length of the penis, working from the base to tip with slow, steady movements. Use your thumb and forefinger, making sure to cover the sides and underside evenly. This massage method helps with increased blood flow, which is crucial for sensitivity and function.

Frequency depends on your personal comfort and goals, but generally, thrice a week is a good starting point. Allow about 10-15 minutes for each session, ensuring you’re in a relaxed setting without disturbances. Try to incorporate breath awareness as well, inhaling deeply and exhaling slowly, letting go of stress and connecting with your body.

If after a few weeks you feel persistent issues, or if you notice discomfort, consult with a healthcare provider. They can offer personalized advice considering your overall health condition. Remember, consistency and staying attuned to your body’s responses are key in seeing improvements, both physically and mentally.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by stress affecting other aspects of your life, consider complementary Ayurveda practices like yoga or meditation to support your mental and emotional health, taking a holistic approach for better results.

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Performing a penis massage can be beneficial in improving circulation, sensitivity, and potentially reducing stress. In traditional Siddha-Ayurvedic practice, this technique is seen as part of maintaining balance in the body’s doshas, particularly vata and pitta, which influence the neurological and circulatory systems. Here’s a straightforward guide to get you started.

Firstly, consider incorporating Ayurvedic oils that are known to balance vata and pitta, such as sesame oil or Brahmi oil. These oils can help to soothe the nerves and improve blood flow. Warm the oil slightly before using for enhanced relaxation and improved absorption.

Begin the massage by applying a small amount of oil to your palms. Using gentle pressure, start from the base, moving towards the tip with slow, steady strokes. Be mindful to maintain even pressure to avoid irritation. The massage can vary from 5 to 15 minutes depending on comfort.

To address mental and emotional stress, incorporate deep, rhythmic breathing during the massage. This can help calm the mind and enhance the connection between mind and body, reducing overall stress levels.

It’s essential to practice this massage technique regularly, perhaps two to three times a week, to see improvement. However, pay attention to any discomfort or irritation, and discontinue if these occur. Remember, the goal is to promote relaxation and improved sensation, not to cause strain.

If you have persistent sensitivity or performance issues, it might be beneficial to explore these concerns with a healthcare professional, as they can sometimes be a sign of underlying conditions.

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