About my child - #18933
I do have a child who’s 1 year 6 months The a child walked at 1 year 6 months,he rarely smile,not too much eye contact with people,he doesn’t seem to be excited when he sees someone close to him and sometimes also the eyes becomes like squirt then after few seconds it goes back to normal.Now um kind of worried if it’s normal for a child to be like that.
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Namaste Riri, to provide more clarity, I would need to know if your child has reached other developmental milestones (like speaking, responding to name, or fine motor skills). Has your child had any recent health checkups or developmental assessments, and are there any family history factors of developmental delays or other conditions? Additionally, could you share if your child has had any issues with hearing or any other behavioral concerns?
Hello Riri, Please get your assessed by a developmental paediatric expert and an Ayurvedic paediatrician too. Since when have you noticed these behaviors? Does your child respond to sounds, gestures, or name calls? Does he show interest in toys, playing, or interacting with others? Have you observed repetitive movements, delayed speech, or sensitivity to certain sounds or textures? Was there any complication during pregnancy or birth?
For healthy brain and nervous system development, massage daily with Bala Ashwagandhadi Taila. Give Brahmi Ghrita (¼ tsp with warm milk) to support cognition. Include homemade ghee, soaked almonds, walnuts, and fresh fruits in his diet. Avoid processed foods, artificial colors, and excess sugar. Regular outdoor play, eye-contact games, and engaging activities can also help.
Firstly, I get where the worry comes from – it’s such a natural reaction as a parent to want to make sure everything’s going good with your lil one. Walking at 18 months ain’t usually a big deal; kiddos hit milestones at different times, but the stuff about his social interactions is worth chatting about.
Alright, so about the rare smiles and limited eye contact – that can mean a lotta things, some kids just do things in their own quirky way, you know? But it’s a good idea to maybe check in with a pediatrician or a specialist who can spend some time with him and give you some peace of mind.
Those squirting eye things you mentioned, it might be nothing big, but could also hint at something like a muscle twitch or mild issue that needs a look-see. Could be related to eye muscle development or something like that. But it could also be nothing. Still, with everything combined, a doc could give you a clearer picture.
From an Ayurvedic angle, ensure he has a stable daily routine involving regular sleep and eating times. Ayurveda swears by routines for balancing doshas and promoting health. Gentle massages with warm sesame oil can be calming for kids, promoting a feeling of connection and relaxation – which may in some cases help with eye contact and responsiveness.
Also, if there’s been changes in his environment or family dynamics, it might affect his behavior too. Stress in kids can come from things we might not even think about. Try engaging him with singing, play or colorful picture books to spark his joy and interaction. Sometimes, more engagement can help notch up the excitement and smiles.
Definitely, though, don’t hesitate in seeing someone about it, especially if those eye squints keep happening or if the behaviors start seeming more pronounced. Your intuition’s golden; if you feel something’s up, it’s always best to follow through with a professional. I hope all is well with your lil guy soon!

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