What are the health impacts and precautions related to fingering the vagina? - #21350

So, I need to talk about something kinda personal and maybe a little embarrassing but I really wanna get it right, you know? Recently, my partner and I have been exploring different ways to connect (intimately, if you catch my drift) and fingering the vagina has come into play. It’s been great and all, but I can't shake this thought that we might be doing something wrong or that it could lead to health issues... Like, is there a right way to fingering the vagina? I mean, what if I apply too much pressure – is there a risk of injury? On top of that, I've read conflicting info online. Some sources say fingering the vagina can cause infections due to bacteria from hands, especially if someone hasn't washed up properly or if nails aren't trimmed. Ugh, I'm worried! I remember one time we got really into it, and then later I had this weird sensation and a bit of discomfort down there. It turned out to be nothing serious, thank goodness, but it made me wonder if maybe we weren't being safe while fingering the vagina. Also, I guess I’m a little confused about lubrication, like, do we need extra when fingering the vagina? I don't want to make things uncomfortable for my partner. There are so many factors to consider even though it seems simple right? I've heard stories about how fingering the vagina can sometimes lead to unintended health complications, ugh! Oh, and what’s the deal with fingering the vagina during my period? I’ve heard mixed opinions about it – some say it’s totally fine, while others are more cautious. I mean, is that safe? There's just so much I don't know and maybe I'm overthinking it (okay, probably!). But seriously, is there specific technique that’s better or worse for fingering the vagina in terms of health? I'm worried I'll mess something up or cause irritation or something. Overall, I want to make sure we’re being safe and respectful while exploring. There just seems to be this big question mark over the whole fingering the vagina thing, you know? I mean, intimacy should be freeing not worrisome! If anyone has advice or pointers on how to get the best out of the experience without compromising health, I’d super appreciate it! It’s important to communicate these things, but it can be hard, especially when it comes to fingering the vagina. Help me out, please! What do I need to know and what precautions should I take?