How to resolve Obesity after child birth - #30827
I have obesity after birth of a child. My child is now 4 years and I am fourty. Not able to reduce my weight though I am diet conscious. My toddler has sleeping issues and I Don get enough sleep. So no energy to do yoga or excercise.. and my child doesn't have proper routine. I am struggling to make proper routine.but facing lots of issues coz of my obesity
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Obesity post-childbirth, it’s a common issue, specially with irregular routines and inadequate sleep. In Ayurveda, excess weight is often related to kapha imbalance; coupled with irregular vata due to stress and not enough rest. First thing to address is your sleep cycle. Aim for consistent bedtime, helping your body regain balance. Consider integrating small changes which don’t require too much energy initially.
For your toddler’s sleep issues, include warm oil massages with sesame oil before bed, it can be calming. Simultaneously, for yourself, a light self-abhyanga (oil massage) with warm sesame oil might help soothe the nervous system. This can reduce stress and improve sleep quality. Simple, small practice to start with and easy to do after your child fall sleep.
Since intense yoga or high energy exercise isn’t viable right now, start with light walks — perhaps early morning or after dinner, depending on your energy levels. Walking is grounding, aids in digestion and gentle weight loss. You can even involve your child, making it a part of family routine, allowing you to engage without feeling guilty for not exercising.
In your diet, focus on favoring light, easy to digest foods that don’t aggravate kapha. Some examples would be warm soups, steamed vegetables, barley, and quinoa. Avoid processed foods, it’s known to increase kapha. Spices like ginger and black pepper can help by stimulating your digestion (agni). Start the day with a warm glass of lemon water to kickstart digestion.
Additionally, practice mindfulness, it’s very important, even 5-10 minutes per day — helps reduce stress and massages those mental imbalances. Sit quietly, practice deep breathing, allow it to provide clarity in creating a routine slowly.
You’re not alone in this struggle, many women face similar challenges, adjusting small aspects one step at a time can gradually lead to improvement. Remember, the key is consistency and patience as this aligns with both your routine, and your child’s needs.
Navigating obesity after childbirth can certainly be challenging, especially when juggling the demands of a toddler with irregular sleep patterns. From a Siddha-Ayurvedic perspective, postpartum weight gain often ties back to an imbalance in the doshas, particularly kapha, affecting your agni, or digestive fire. To address this, three areas are useful to focus on: diet, lifestyle adjustments, and herbal formulations.
Your efforts toward mindful eating are crucial—it’s important to focus on light, warm, and easy-to-digest foods. Opt for steamed vegetables, soups, and whole grains like millet and quinoa. Incorporating spices like ginger, black pepper, and turmeric can stimulate digestion and help balance kapha. Try to have your meals at regular intervals and avoid heavy meals at night, as this can further impact agni.
Lifestyle changes can seem daunting for a busy mother, but small steps are effective. Even if exercise is challenging, integrating movement into daily tasks adds up. Walking with your child or engaging in short bursts of activity while at home can be beneficial. Also try simple breathing techniques or pranayama which can rejuvenate energy without intense exertion. Balancing your sleep is pivotal, so whenever your child sleeps, try to rest as well to allow your body to recuperate.
In terms of herbal support, consider herbs like Triphala or Trikatu (a blend of ginger, black pepper, and long pepper) that help improve metabolism. It’s always wise to consult an Ayurvedic practitioner for personalized advice here.
Given your current challenges, making gradual adjustments is key to long-term results. If sleep issues continue to persist, seeking guidance from a pediatric sleep specialist for your toddler might also provide relief, supporting both your rhythms. Keep pace with these incremental changes, and over time, they may help in finding more balance and reducing weight post-childbirth.

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