Rickets in children, often linked to low Vitamin D and calcium absorption, does sound like you’ve had quite a concern with your brother’s condition. Ayurveda definetly has something to offer, especially with Vata balance and digestive support (Agni) for nutrient absorption.
First, you’re right about the bones—it’s crucial to balance Vata dosha, which often, if out of balance, leads to issues like weak bones. In Ayurveda, it’s important to pacify Vata with warm, oily, and nourishing foods. Ghee is a star here; maybe incorporate it into his meals, like on warm roti or rice. You might try cooking with sesame oil too, known for strengthening bones. Massage (Abhyanga) can be immensely helpful, perhaps as you mentioned, using Bala oil. This type of oil is rich, and when combined with daily sun exposure, can support muscle and bone health—yes, encourage those outdoor sessions; so vital for natural Vitamin D!
Ashwagandha, a powerful adaptogen, supports overall strength and energy. Maybe you can try giving it in warm milk, ideally at bedtime. Strengthening his Agni so his digestion is strong enough to process nutrients can involve warming spices like ginger and cumin. They can be added to his meals subtly.
Frequent colds and delayed dental growth can indeed be linked to the same deficiency issues and weak ‘Agni’. Offering a balanced diet with fruits like bananas and raisins, and vegetables like carrots and squash could also be helpful. More emphasis on calcium-rich sources—Ragi or finger millet is a great choice, as well as leafy greens, soaked overnight and used in recipes.
The Ayurvedic herb, Shatavari, supports growth and repair processes—might be something to explore, but with an Ayurvedic practitioner’s guidance to ensure proper usage.
Consistency with these steps and patience are key. Natural approaches take time but can lead to lasting balance. Do keep monitoring alongside any allopathic treatments advised by the doctor. And yes, Ayurveda isn’t a replacement in situations needing immediate medical attention. Collaboration is the best approach for holistic healing. Keep up the good work - sounds like you’re doing everything you can to help him grow healthy and strong!