is premature ejaculation curable - #23538
I am really struggling with something that’s been affecting my confidence and relationships for a while now. It’s about premature ejaculation, and I feel like it’s knocking the wind out of me. I'm in my early 30s, and I’ve noticed that, um, for the last year or so, I just can't seem to control things during intimate moments, like it happens way too fast, like within a minute or less most of the time. At first, I thought it was just a phase or maybe normal stress, but it’s really starting mess with my self-esteem! I’ve tried focusing on breathing exercises and even some of those techniques I read about online, but nothing seems to help long-term. I just want to know, **is premature ejaculation curable**? Are there natural remedies or Ayurvedic solutions that might work? My friend mentioned ashwagandha could help with anxiety, but what else is out there? Any advice or personal experiences would be super helpful! Thank you!
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Yes, in most cases — especially when it’s not linked to a deep neurological or prostate disorder, it can be reversed or well-managed Ayurvedic + Natural Remedies for PE
🔸 1. Ashwagandha
What it does: Reduces stress, balances hormones, increases stamina
Dose: 500 mg capsule or 1 tsp powder with milk – morning and night
🔸 2. Shatavari + Safed Musli
What they do: Nourish reproductive system, improve control & endurance
Form: Combined in “Musli Pak” or “Stamina boosters”
Use: 1 tsp daily with warm milk
🔸 3. Kaunch Beej Churna
What it does: Boosts testosterone, delays ejaculation, builds virility
Dose: 1 tsp with milk at night
🔸 4. Triphala Churna (for gut and Vata balance)
Take 1 tsp at night — helps improve absorption + stress balance
Mind-Body & Pelvic Muscle Training
🔹 1. Kegel Exercises (PC muscle training)
Contract muscles that stop urine mid-flow
Hold for 5–10 seconds, repeat 10–15 times, 3x/day
Builds control over ejaculation
🔹 2. Anulom Vilom + Brahmari Pranayama
Calms overactive nerves, reduces anxiety
Do 10 minutes morning and evening
🔹 3. Start–Stop Technique (with or without partner)
Practice arousal → pause before climax → resume
Premature ejaculation can indeed be quite distressing, but from an Ayurvedic perspective, it can often be managed effectively. It’s generally seen as a result of imbalance in the doshas, particularly Vata dosha, which governs movement and can lead to excess excitability or scattered energy. It may also involve a deficiency in Ojas, which is essentially the essence of all the bodily tissues responsible for vitality and stamina.
First steps towards balance might involve understanding and addressing these potential causes through lifestyle and dietary changes. Consider incorporating more warm, grounding foods into your diet such as root vegetables (like sweet potatoes and carrots) and whole grains (like quinoa or barley), which can help reduce excess Vata. Cook your meals with healthy oils like ghee, and incorporate spices like saffron and nutmeg, which are known to bolster reproductive health.
Herbs like ashwagandha, as your friend mentioned, can be beneficial due to their adaptogenic properties, helping to reduce anxiety and stress. With consistent use, ashwagandha helps in enhancing overall stamina, including sexual stamina. Still, it’s crucial that you consult with an Ayurvedic practitioner before self-prescribing, as they’ll provide advice based on your unique constitution and health status.
Daily Routine Adjustments such as a regular sleep schedule, moderate exercise, and relaxation techniques like yoga can also make a significant difference. Breathing exercises and meditation can center your focus and foster relaxation, lessening the anxieties around performance.
Self-massage (Abhyanga) with sesame oil is not only calming but also strengthens the tissues, improves circulation, and supports Vata balance. Doing this before your evening shower might bring noticeable calmness and centeredness.
While these strategies might offer support, it’s key to remember that everyone’s experience and journey are different. What works for one may not work for another. If these suggestions don’t bring the relief you’re hoping for, it’s important not to lose hope. A detailed consultation with a local Ayurvedic specialist or healthcare provider could be beneficial, as they’ll be able to tailor a plan specifically to your needs, helping unlock the body’s natural healing potential.
Finally, in cases where premature ejaculation is having a significant impact on your life and well-being, it could be beneficial to also speak with a medical professional or therapist to explore other treatment options available including therapy sessions, which can provide insight and strategies beyond what lifestyle adjustments can offer.

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