how to massage cock - #39527

I am really confused about something. I’ve been doing some research on how to massage cock, and it’s been kinda overwhelming honestly. My partner has expressed that they want to explore this, and I just want to make sure I'm doing it right. We’ve been together for a while, and intimacy is important for us. Last week, I tried a few techniques I found online, but I’m not sure if they were effective or if I was just overthinking it. I mean, every time I moved my hands, I worried whether I was applying enough pressure or even the right kind of strokes. Plus, my partner seemed to enjoy it, but I couldn’t tell if they were just being nice or genuinely liked what I was doing. Is there a specific way or technique on how to massage cock that I should know about? Like, do I use lotion or oil? And how do you know when to change the pressure or pace? I think I might have rushed at points, and I'm worried I might not understand all the cues. Any advice would be super helpful because it shouldnt be stressful, right? Thanks for any tips on how to massage cock that really works!