Planning for pregnancy - #18897
I have dignosed pcos since 2 years and Mt weight is increased by 20 kgs within these years. I got married 1 year ago planning for pregnancy but not get succeed also I feel painful sex everytime of intercourse please guide us for further.
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Hello Pritee, I would need to know more about your menstrual cycle (e.g., irregularity, flow, pain), your overall health, and if you’ve had any recent investigations such as hormone level tests (like FSH, LH, and testosterone) or ultrasounds. Have you tried any treatments for PCOS, such as medications or lifestyle changes, and have you experienced any other symptoms like acne, excessive hair growth, or scalp thinning? Additionally, could you share details about your diet, stress levels, and exercise routine?
Dealing with PCOS and planning for a family can really feel overwhelming. Let’s break it down a bit. PCOS often leads to weight gain, as you’ve experienced, which can affect hormones and ovulation. But there’s hope, by making some lifestyle changes, we can help your body get back on track.
Let’s start with diet. Aim to eat a balanced meal, focusing on whole foods like fresh veggies, fruits, whole grains and lean proteins. Try to avoid processed foods and refined sugar as much as you can, they can mess with your insulin levels, leading to more hormonal imbalances. Drinking warm water with lemon or ginger first thing in the morning is a small but do-able step that might help kickstart your metabolism.
Exercise is equally important. You don’t need to hit the gym hard—simple daily walks, yoga, or even dancing to your favorite songs in the living room are great. Physical activity helps improve your insulin sensitivity and may help regulate periods.
Regarding the painful intercourse, it might be due to hormonal imbalances or stress. Don’t hesitate to bring this up with your gynecologist for professional advice. In Ayurveda, you might consider gentle belly massages with warm sesame oil to relax muscles.
Also, think about hydration and sleep. They these often get overlooked but are crucial for balance and recovery, you know? Try going to bed and waking up around the same time each day and make sure you’re getting enough water, based on your weight.
On supplements, Ashwagandha is often used in Ayurveda for stress management but check with a doctor first to ensure it’s safe for you.
Remember, patience is key. These changes work best when they’re small and sustainable, think slow and steady. It’s important to keep an open conversation with your husband—having his support can make a world of difference.
Finally, don’t shy away from seeking specialized help, be it an Ayurvedic consultant or reproductive endocrinologist. They can offer tailored insights specific to your body and needs. You’re on a journey, and every step counts.

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