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I feel like my body and mind got bounded. - #5883
Deepak
I had a good sexual life in past since school then to college, I also had good mental state where I only used to think about getting more success in life. But as Ive been single for almost 5 years not getting any mental, physical or emotional support. I masturbate alot on weekends mostly. I feel like hugging her whenever I need.
Age: 29
Life without sex is nothing
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Your feelings may stem from a combination of emotional, mental, and physical imbalances, potentially linked to suppressed Kapha (emotional grounding) and aggravated Vata (loneliness and overthinking). Excessive indulgence in masturbation can deplete Ojas (vital energy), leading to feelings of dissatisfaction and low motivation. To restore balance, focus on nurturing activities like yoga, pranayama (especially Nadi Shodhana), and meditation to calm your mind and emotions. Develop meaningful connections through hobbies or community groups. Include grounding foods like nuts, seeds, ghee, and whole grains in your diet. Herbs like Ashwagandha and Shatavari can support vitality and emotional well-being. If these feelings persist, consider speaking with a counselor or an Ayurvedic practitioner for holistic guidance.
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Namaste Deepak ji,
Your feelings of being "bounded" mentally and physically, along with emotional longing, may stem from Vata imbalance, which often leads to overthinking, emotional instability, and physical fatigue. Prolonged lack of companionship, combined with frequent indulgence in habits like excessive masturbation, can deplete Ojas (vital energy) and weaken mental and physical strength.
Ayurvedic Recommendations:
Restore Mental Balance:
Take Brahmi Vati or Ashwagandha capsules (1 twice daily) to calm the mind and improve focus.
Practice Anulom Vilom Pranayama daily for 10–15 minutes to reduce overthinking.
Enhance Physical Vitality:
Consume Chyawanprash (1 tsp) with warm milk in the morning to rejuvenate energy.
Add Shatavari powder (1 tsp) to milk at night to nourish reproductive health and balance emotions.
Lifestyle Adjustments:
Abhyanga (Oil Massage): Weekly self-massage with sesame oil to calm the body and mind.
Limit masturbation to maintain vitality and focus on creative or fulfilling activities during weekends.
Emotional and Social Support:
Reconnect with friends or pursue hobbies that bring joy. Building a social circle can alleviate feelings of loneliness.
Dietary Support:
Eat nourishing foods like ghee, milk, nuts, and fruits to strengthen body and mind.
Avoid caffeine, alcohol, and spicy foods that aggravate Vata.
Addressing your emotional needs and building a balanced routine will help restore your vitality and mental clarity. If feelings persist, consider consulting an Ayurvedic practitioner for personalized guidance.
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Feeling like you're in a bind, mentally and physically, is something many people go through—sometimes the body's energy gets, let's say, stagnated, especially when comfort and support feel distant. In Ayurveda, emotions, like loneliness and even sexual energy, tie into different doshas which impact your overall health. All this has a lot to do with your body's balance, mostly dominated by the Vata dosha, which might now be out of whack.
For starters, boosting your agni, or digestive fire, can be a secret weapon here. Strong digestion isn't just about food; it's about processing emotions, too! Try sipping on warm water mixed with ginger throughout the day. Helps reset everything from the inside out. It's like a little warmth for the soul and the stomach, yah know?
Also, consider adding sesame oil massages (Abhyanga) to your routine. Seriously, it's kind of like a self-hug—a warm, grounding to counteract the imbalance caused by excess Vata. Just warm some sesame oil, and massage into your skin before you shower. It'll nourish your tissues (dhatus) and kinda help soothe the brain too.
When it comes to food—eat cooked, nourishing foods like stews or lentil soups. I mean, trying to make food feel like a bit of a big, warm hug may sound strange, but it really works wonders for grounding yourself amidst spinning thoughts.
I’d also recommend calming herbs like ashwagandha. It’s great for stabilizing emotions and boosting stamina—mentally and physically. You could take some in the evening mixed with warm milk, it's simple and quite relaxing!
But hey, these states are not permanent. Searching for balance will help, really... sometimes it’s finding those little rituals that help you feel more connected, even when you're by yourself. Plus engaging in something creative or getting some fresh air sometimes corral those thoughts, too.
If things feel overwhelming, don't hesitate to speak with a professional. Isolation can turn unhealthy quick. Seeking a little help or even talk therapy might bring about new perspectives. Important to remind youself that comfort and support can come from different sources, not just romantic connections. Hope this helps!
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