Ah, sounds like quite a few things goin on. Might be overwhelming but don’t worry, we’re diving into this one at a time. First off, erectile dysfunction (ED) and premature ejaculation can be driven by many different factors, ya know? Could be stress, lifestyle or physical issues. Ayurvedic perspective would look at vata imbalance primarily; our old friend vata dosha when it goes outta whack can create issues around reproductive health.
For ED, using Ashwagandha (Withania somnifera) is quite beneficial. It’s like a rejuvenator for the body, helps in balancing vata and improving vitality. Take about 5 grams of Ashwagandha powder with warm milk before bed — should make a difference. You also wanna get a good night’s sleep, 'cause lack of sleep can make this worse.
Brahmi (Centella asiatica) is another one good for calming down the mind and promoting sustained energy levels. Consider Brahmi ghee or prepare a decoction with the leaves and water. Drink it daily, maybe?
Now, you mentioned white cream-like stuff around the penis head, and redness, tons of itching? That could be a fungal infection or balanitis. Sometimes not enough hygiene or perhaps some irritation from soaps can cause these. Wash gently with warm water, and try a bit of coconut oil after drying up.
Herbal washes with neem (Azadirachta indica) leaves boiled in water can help, due to neem’s antifungal properties. But seriously, if any of these symptoms get worse or you see no change, checking with a local medical practitioner might be best - infections can get tricky.
Lifestyle-wise, maintain a routine, less distractions while ya eat. Add more nuts, seeds like pumpkin seeds to your diet. They’re filled with zinc-supports male reproductive health. Less caffeine, avoid smoking if you do. Finally, meditate, breathe easy. Stress ain’t doin you any favors here.
Keep consistent with these recommendations, and give it time. It’s a journey, not a sprint.