How to make my 3years kid sleep long and fast? - #27804
My 3years kids sleeping habit changed drastically suddenly. He used to sleep for 11hours 30mins each day but suddenly he is sleeping9.30-10hours a day. That also the gap between nap and night sleep is more than 8 hours (his age gap should be between6-6.5). After putting him to bed he is taking more than 1.5hours to settle and sleep.
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Usually in children as age increases sleep gradually reduces 10- 11 hrs .of sleep in kids is normal. Since having chronic cold and recurring fever , child remain little restless . Still if need to give ayurvedic medicine You can give Brahmi Syrup 1/2 tsp before bedtime with milk.
No need to worry dear.
Kind Regards, DR.ISHA ASHOK BHARDWAJ.
Hello Kiansh ji, No need to worry, your kids decreased sleep is due to his growing age,the sleep may be disturbed due to cold. Here’s what you can do to make him sleep fast at night - . His afternoon nap should be less than 2hours . Avoid screen time after dinner. . Let him play and walk in the evening.This will promote his growth and he will like to sleep at night to get rest. . Kids don’t follow the clock,but try to make him sleep at the almost same time everyday. . Make sure the room is quite and comfortable for him. Check for mosquitos and bugs. . Check his diaper before you sleep. These measures would work. Regards, Dr. Anupriya
Changes in sleep patterns can be concerning for parents, especially if your child was previously sleeping well. First, consider any recent changes in his daily routine or environment that may have affected his sleep, like new school or activities. In Ayurveda, balancing Vata dosha can help with sleep issues, as Vata imbalance may cause restlessness.
1. Routine: Establish a consistent daily routine, which is calming for children. Try to keep his wake-up, nap, and bedtime at the same times every day. This helps regulate his internal clock, aiding in better sleep patterns.
2. Diet and digestions: Give your child a warm glass of milk with a pinch of turmeric or nutmeg before bed. This can have a calming effect and support better sleep. Ensure his evening meal is light, ideally 2-3 hours before bed to avoid digestive disturbances impacting sleep.
3. Massage: Try a gentle Abhyanga, an Ayurvedic oil massage, before bath or bed. Use warm sesame oil or coconut oil, which can help soothe the nervous system and promote relaxation. Focus on the scalp, arms, feet and back.
4. Environment: Create a relaxing environment in his bedroom. Keep it quiet and dark, perhaps using blackout curtains. Limit any noise disturbances and avoid screens like TVs or tablets an hour before bedtime, as they can interfere with the natural production of melatonin.
5. Herbs: Consider mild herbal formulas, under the supervision of a qualified practitioner, like Brahmi or Ashwagandha syrup, which is known to promote calmness and better sleep in children.
Monitor any other symptoms that might suggest a need for professional medical evaluation. If his sleep issues persist or worsen, or if they are affecting his day-time activities, consultation with a healthcare provider is recommended to rule out any underlying medical problems. Adjusting his routine with these guidelines could be beneficial for returning to his regular sleep cycle.
A sudden change in your 3-year-old’s sleep patterns might be linked to various factors, including dietary changes, emotional transitions or even developmental milestones. In the Siddha-Ayurvedic approach, we would consider vata imbalance as a potential cause. This dosha governs movement and activity, when out of balance, it can lead to restlessness or disturbed sleep.
To help your child sleep longer and more peacefully, focus on creating a calming bedtime routine. Begin by establishing a predictable schedule; consistency is key. Try giving him a warm bath with a few drops of natural, body-appropriate oil before bed to soothe and relax his nervous system.
Diet is also crucial. Incorporate warm, grounding foods during dinner with a small serving of lukewarm milk before bedtime. Add a pinch of nutmeg or a bit of turmeric to the milk, as these spices are known to promote sleepiness and calmness in young children.
Ensure that his daily activities are balanced and not overly stimulating late in the evening. Limit exposure to screens or any electronic devices as they can interfere with the body’s natural rhythms due to the blue light emitted. Engage him in calm activities instead, like reading or storytelling, which can help in winding down before sleep.
The environment where he sleeps should be comfortable, quiet, and slightly cool, which can assist in promoting deeper sleep. Consider a gentle routine of massaging the feet with warm sesame oil, which is grounding and can help settle vata energy.
If there are no improvements after following these steps, or if you’re concerned that the sleep change might be due to other health reasons, it could be wise to consult with a pediatrician to rule out any underlying issues or gain further tailored advice.

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