when to start newborn massage - #41637
I am a first-time mom and honestly feeling a little lost about this whole parenting thing. My baby is just about a month old and I've been hearing a lot about newborn massage and the benefits it can bring for bonding and relaxation. But like, when to start newborn massage exactly? I mean, my baby seems so little, and I just don't want to hurt them or do it wrong, you know? My sister told me it's super important for helping with gas and sleep, but I haven't tried it yet ‘cause I’m not sure if I'm ready or if baby is too. I've read online that some people start really early, like a week or two after the baby’s born, and then others say to wait a bit longer. It’s all very confusine. Do you all have any tips on when to start newborn massage? Like, what signs should I look for that it’s a good time? Should I have special oils or just use my hands? And is there anything specific to avoid??? Trying to make sure I do everything right for my little one, but man, this is a lot! Appreciate any advice from you guys.
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Doctors' responses
Starting newborn massage is indeed a beneficial practice, but timing and technique are essential for it to be effective and safe. You can start gentle massage as early as a few weeks after birth, around two to three weeks is a comfortable time, but observing your baby’s cues is crucial. Signs that your baby is ready for massage include a relaxed and calm appearance, rather than fussiness or irritation. Baby massage can be a wonderful bonding experience and aid in relaxing your little one and supporting better digestion too.
For the massage, Ayurvedic principles suggest using warm oils, which are nurturing and gentle. Traditionally, sesame oil is used because it’s soothing and nourishes vata dosha, which is predominant in infants. Alternatively, coconut oil can be a good choice if you’re in a warmer climate, as it has a cooling nature. Make sure the oil is warm but not hot, simply by testing it on your skin prior to application. Start with small amounts on your hands to ensure it’s comfortable for your baby.
When you begin, choose a quiet time when your baby is neither hungry nor too full, perhaps after a bath or before bedtime. Keep the strokes light, gentle, and rhythmic. Focus on harmonious and calm movements. Pay attention to your baby’s response — any signs of discomfort or distress indicate it’s time to stop. Avoiding pressing hard on the baby’s delicate skin is imperative.
A peaceful, warm environment helps, so ensure the room is cozy, with no drafts, to maintain warmth. Also, avoid lotions or synthetic oils as they may irritate sensitive infant skin. Essential oils should not be used on newborns either as their skin can react due to its sensitivity.
If your baby has any medical conditions, it’s always advisable to consult with a pediatrician before starting massage. Always prioritize your baby’s comfort and safety first. Keep your nails trimmed and hands clean to prevent any irritation. Newborn massage, done with care and attention, can foster a deeper connection with your baby and support their well-being effectively.

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