How to draw motive libido - #19976
My sex life is weak due to its not last long and some times penny not getting on as a result I’m suffering from family life balance . As you can understand even I’m 54 still need to keep the company with your partner
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Avoid addiction if any. Regular exercise and meditation. Count plus granules 15gms twice with milk. Tab.Confido 2-0-2
Hello Sir, Do you also have premature ejaculation along with erection issues? At 54, issues like erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation can often be linked to factors like stress, poor circulation, hormonal changes, or underlying health conditions. And from an Ayurvedic perspective, it may indicate a Vata and Pitta imbalance leading to weakened Shukra dhatu (reproductive tissue).
This are safe suggestions from me- Take Shilajatvadi vati - 2 tabs with milk on empty stomach. Syp Balarishtam - 10 ml twice daily after meals with 10 ml water. Dietary Changes: Include warm, nourishing foods like milk, ghee, almonds, and dates. Avoid excessive spicy, fried, or processed foods. Lifestyle Adjustments: Practice yoga, especially poses like Bhujangasana and Sarvangasana, to improve blood circulation. Daily Abhyanga (oil massage) using sesame oil can also help balance Vata. Stress Management: Practice Pranayama and meditation to reduce stress, which directly impacts sexual health. Medicated Oils: Applying Bala Taila or Mahamasha Taila externally to the penile area with a gentle massage may improve circulation.
Hello Chaminda,
I understand the importance of maintaining a healthy and fulfilling sexual life. At the age of 54, it’s common for many men to experience changes in sexual function due to factors like stress, diet, lifestyle, or hormonal imbalances. Ayurveda views sexual health as closely linked to overall vitality, and addressing it involves balancing the Vata and Pitta doshas, which influence energy and sexual function. Could you share more about your diet, stress levels, and any other symptoms you may experience, like fatigue or low energy? Additionally, regular practices like yoga, proper sleep, and stress management can play a significant role.
Herbs like Ashwagandha, Shatavari, Gokshura, and Safed Musli are often recommended to support stamina, enhance libido, and improve overall vitality. Ayurvedic treatments like Panchakarma might also be useful to detoxify and rejuvenate your system. Would you be open to exploring these natural remedies, and would you like advice on how to incorporate these herbs into your daily routine?
Eat dry fruits, garlic, and pumpkin seeds for better blood flow. Do Kegel exercises and brisk walking daily. Manage stress with meditation and good sleep. Avoid alcohol, smoking, and junk food. If needed, check testosterone levels Let me know if you need specific remedies. Ashwagandha churna 1/2 tsp with warm milk at night
Your concerns about sexual performance and its impact on family life is quite common and can usually be addressed with a combination of lifestyle adjustments and Ayurveda strategies. It’s important to understand that these issues are a natural part of life, and there are steps you can take to improve your situation.
Firstly, let’s talk about balancing your doshas. At 54, it is common to experience an increased Vata, which can lead to anxiety and stress. Ashwagandha is a well-regarded adaptogen in Ayurveda that is known to bring balance to Vata and also increase stamina. A daily intake of 300-500 mg might be beneficial, but you should discuss this dosage with a healthcare provider to consider any potential interactions with medications you might be taking.
In terms of diet, integrate foods that are conducive to boosting libido. Include almonds, sesame seeds, and dairy products like milk and ghee. These are known to nourish Shukra dhatu, the tissue related to reproductive health. Black sesame seeds, in particular, can be consumed in small quantities daily for their warming qualities that help with grounding Vata.
Engage in regular exercise but ensure its moderate and not too intense—yoga can be particularly beneficial as it helps in balancing both mind and body. Specific poses like Paschimottanasana or Vajrasana can enhance circulation in the pelvic region, contributing to improved stamina and sexual health.
Managing stress is a key component. Meditation practices or even simple breathing exrecises like pranayama can be effective in calming the nervous system, reducing any performance-related anxiety you might be experiencing.
Good sleep is crucial, aim for 7-8 hours. Proper sleep ensures that your body has the energy reserves to maintain not only overall health but also sexual health.
Lastly, it might be helpful to have an open conversation with your partner. Communication can often alleviate some of the stress surrounding sexual performance and brings partners closer together emotionally.
As always, it’s advisable to consult with a healthcare provider before starting any new regimen, especially if you have pre-existing health conditions or are on medication. This ensures that the approach you take is safe and suited for your specific health circumstances.

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