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Why does my sexual weakness - #3476
Toton Mukherjee
I am masturbating last 10 years so my sexual weakness is very much i am fear to marriage because sexual weakness so what i do? Please
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Experiencing concerns about sexual weakness and anxiety related to marriage is common and can often be addressed effectively with the right approach. Prolonged habits like excessive masturbation might lead to mental stress or physical fatigue, but they rarely cause permanent harm unless coupled with other lifestyle imbalances, anxiety, or underlying health issues.
Here’s what you can do to restore confidence and improve overall sexual health:
Focus on Nutrition: Include foods that enhance vitality, like almonds, walnuts, sesame seeds, dates, milk, and ghee. Ayurvedic herbs like ashwagandha, shatavari, and safed musli are excellent for boosting stamina and testosterone levels.
Reduce Stress: Anxiety can exacerbate feelings of sexual inadequacy. Practice yoga, meditation, or deep breathing exercises to calm your mind and improve blood circulation.
Limit Habits Like Overthinking: Constant worry about performance or past habits can create a psychological barrier. Shift your focus to overall well-being instead of guilt or fear.
Ayurvedic Medicines: Consult an Ayurvedic practitioner to use formulations like Vrihani Gutika, Kaunch Beej powder, or Shilajit for improving strength, energy, and libido.
Exercise Regularly: Physical activity boosts stamina, reduces stress, and improves blood flow, directly enhancing sexual health.
Marriage involves emotional bonding, not just physical performance. Seeking guidance from an expert can help you regain confidence and prepare for a fulfilling relationship.
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Alright, so... you're dealing with sexual weakness and it's understandable how that can cause concerns about marriage. You're not alone in this, really. From an ayurvedic point of view, this could be a sign of vata dosha imbalance. Too much of this can lead to anxiety and weakened ojas (vital energy).
First off, let's talk about diet. Make sure you're eating warm, oily, easily digestible foods. Think of dishes like kitchari (rice and lentil stew) with ghee or some nourishing bone broths. Try to avoid cold or raw foods as they can worsen vata. Almonds soaked overnight can also be good for energy - just peel and eat them in the morning.
Now, let's talk about lifestyle shifts. Regular and gentle exercise or yoga aimed at calming the mind and body is helpful. Meditation can work wonders too! Simple pranayama, like Nadi Shodhana (alternate nostril breathing) for about 5 minutes in the morning, might help you center your mind.
As for herbs, Ashwagandha and Shatavari are quite revered in Ayurveda for promoting vigor and vitality. Brew a tea with ashwagandha powder mixed in milk—especially at night—they help calm the nerves as well.
You might wanna start limiting the frequency of masturbation. Gradually doing it less often can help restore your vitality. This process should be slow and steady for beneficial outcomes over time.
Consider a morning routine, to help balance your body and mind—like tongue scraping, body oil massage (abhyanga) with sesame oil, then a warm bath. This nurtures your entire being, not just physically, but mentally.
Lastly, if anxiety over this is overwhelming, it’s possibly worth speaking to a counselor or professional who specializes in male health or relationships. Addressing the root of the anxiety can often be most effective in the long term.
Ultimately, remember: you’re more then the sum of your sexual experiences. Ayurveda encourages balance, so focus on holistic well-being rather than just the symptoms. Take it step by step, ok?
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