Safe Ayurvedic & Herbal Support for Achieving Feminine Orgasmic Experiences (with Pre-Cum & Prostate Fluid Release) - #34364
Doctor, My goal is to experience soft, feminine-style sexual energy with more fluid release (pre-cum/prostate fluid) and less ejaculatory urgency. I want this effect only temporarily during a certain “bliss period,” not permanently. During bliss, I want to experience pleasure fully like women or shemales do, with no sense of masculinity at that moment—only soft, feminine joy and surrender.” Could you please guide me: 1. Which safe natural options may support this temporary shift? 2. What possible changes or risks should I be aware of (hormonal, sexual, mental, physical)? 3. How should the herbs or practices be taken (form/duration/dose) for temporary effect only? 4. What supportive lifestyle or diet would help (for fluid release, calmness, feminine arousal curve)?
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This is a request related to conscious, temporary modulation of your sexual energy and experience, which aligns well with the holistic principles of Ayurveda regarding balancing the doshas and cultivating Ojas (vitality) and Shukra Dhatu (reproductive tissue).
From an Ayurvedic perspective, your goal is to reduce the sharp, upward, and active energy of Pitta (fire) and the movement/urgency of Vata (air), while increasing the grounding, lubricating, and fluid qualities of Kapha (water/earth) and Ojas.
1. Safe Natural Options for Temporary Shift
The key is to use Kapha-increasing, Vata-calming, and Pitta-moderating herbs (rasayanas) that primarily nourish the reproductive fluid (Shukra Dhatu) without over-stimulating the energy.
Ayurvedic Herb Primary Action (Dosha) Supporting the Goal Shatavari (Asparagus racemosus) Kapha-boosting, Pitta-calming The ultimate female tonic (supports the female reproductive system), but is deeply cooling, lubricating, and promotes Shukra (fluid) quality, reducing heat and dryness associated with Vata. Bala (Sida cordifolia) Vata/Pitta-calming, Kapha-boosting Known to promote strength and vitality (Shukra Dhatu) while being grounding and calming. It helps soothe the nervous system. Vidarikand (Pueraria tuberosa) Kapha-boosting, Vata/Pitta-calming A powerful Rasayana (rejuvenative) known to increase body mass, strength, and the volume and quality of reproductive fluid (Shukra), supporting that “fluid release” goal. Ashwagandha (Withania somnifera) Vata-calming, Kapha-moderating An adaptogen that calms the nervous system and reduces stress/anxiety, which directly decreases ejaculatory urgency (Vata). Its quality is nourishing and grounding.
2. Possible Changes and Risks Since your goal is a temporary shift in sexual experience, the effect on your system is related to the short-term impact of Kapha-boosting and Vata-calming qualities.
Category Possible Change (Desired Effect) Possible Risk (Due to Kapha Increase) Sexual Increased lubrication, decreased ejaculatory urgency, a sensation of deep, soft pleasure, extended arousal plateau. Temporary decrease in baseline libido/drive, temporary increase in seminal/prostatic fluid viscosity (heaviness). Hormonal Minor, temporary balancing of androgens (like testosterone) by adaptogens (Ashwagandha, Shatavari), which reduce stress-induced hormonal spikes. Minimal risk of significant hormonal change when used temporarily and in small doses, but long-term or high-dose use is NOT recommended for temporary effect. Mental Increased calmness, reduced anxiety/stress, sense of groundedness, greater capacity for surrender (reduced Vata). Feeling slightly heavier, lethargic, or less mentally sharp (if too much Kapha is consumed). Physical Improved joint/tissue lubrication (Ojas), feeling of being more sattvic (balanced and peaceful). Temporary weight gain or feeling of heaviness/slowness if the dose is too high or used too long.
3. Temporary Dosage and Duration The most effective method for a targeted, temporary effect is to take the herbs mixed with an appropriate Anupana (carrier) right before your planned “bliss period.” This uses a concept called Vyavayi or Ashukari—acting quickly and permeating the system rapidly.
Herb & Form Dose Carrier (Anupana) Duration Shatavari Powder (Root) 1/2 to 1 teaspoon Warm organic milk (or almond milk) with 1 tsp Ghee and a pinch of cardamom. 1-2 hours before your planned “bliss period” only. Use for a few days before for a stronger effect.
Vidarikand Powder 1/2 teaspoon Same as above (Milk, Ghee, Cardamom) OR mix with honey. 1-2 hours before the activity only. Rationale: The warm milk is Kapha-boosting, Ghee is deeply lubricating (softness, fluid release), and Shatavari/Vidarikand are the core herbs for quality fluid production and calming Pitta/Vata. This combination supports the desired shift away from heat and urgency.
Duration: Take only for the specific 1-3 days surrounding your “bliss period.” Discontinue immediately afterward to allow your natural constitution to return to its balance.
4. Supportive Lifestyle and Diet To set the stage for this experience, you must actively reduce Vata and Pitta qualities in your mind and body.
Area Supportive Action (Kapha-Increasing / Vata-Calming) Diet (Fluid Release) Increase Ojas-building foods: Dairy (warm milk, fresh yogurt, Ghee), Almonds (soaked and peeled), Dates, Avocados, cooked whole grains (like Kitchari/rice). Reduce: Dry, crunchy, cold, raw, or highly spicy/acidic foods. Mind/Calmness Pranayama: Practice Nadi Shodhana (Alternate Nostril Breathing) before the activity to reduce Vata (anxiety, mental speed) and promote calmness. Meditation: A short grounding meditation will reduce ejaculatory urgency. Arousal Curve (Feminine Surrender) Warm Oil Massage (Abhyanga): Give yourself a gentle, full-body self-massage with a warm, heavy oil like Sesame oil (Vata-calming) or Bala oil (Kapha-boosting) 30-60 minutes before bathing. This grounds the energy, calms the nervous system, and promotes a slower, deeper, more sensual arousal curve. Timing Ayurvedic Kapha time (6 PM - 10 PM) is naturally calmer and more conducive to deep, steady connection and fluid production.
Start with Shatavari churan 1tsp twice daily before food with milk . This will give Feminine Orgasmic. Brahmi vati 1-0-1 after food with water.
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Your goal is to experience feminine-style, non-ejaculatory orgasms with abundant pre-cum and prostate fluid. You want to avoid increasing testosterone or fertility. You listed the herbs: Shatavari, Ashwagandha, Gokshura, Licorice, Saw Palmetto, and Red Clover. Shatavari is cooling, nourishing, and promotes feminine energy and lubrication. Ashwagandha is warming and adaptogenic; it supports stamina and stress reduction but can mildly raise testosterone. Gokshura often increases testosterone and semen production, which may work against your goal. Licorice is cooling, mildly estrogenic, and supports fluid release. Saw Palmetto supports prostate health and may reduce excessive semen, aligning with your objective. Red Clover is phytoestrogenic and promotes feminine energy. To support your goal, avoid Gokshura because it enhances masculine sexual drive. Use Ashwagandha only in low to moderate doses to prevent unintended testosterone increase. Focus on Shatavari, Licorice, Red Clover, and Saw Palmetto for feminine energy and non-ejaculatory pleasure. Optional herbs include Mucuna pruriens and Damiana for pleasure without stimulating ejaculation. Your goal aligns with balancing Pitta and Vata doshas to reduce aggressive sexual energy and dryness. Daily practices like pelvic floor exercises (Mula Bandha), mindfulness, and breathwork can help retain orgasmic energy. A cooling, nourishing diet and regular oil massage support feminine energy and lubrication. Licorice in high doses can raise blood pressure, so use moderate amounts. Saw Palmetto is generally safe but may cause mild stomach upset in some people. Red Clover is safe for most people but avoid if taking estrogen-sensitive medications. Start with a core herbal stack: Shatavari, Saw Palmetto, Red Clover, and Licorice. Introduce herbs gradually, observing your body’s response over 4–6 weeks. Combining these herbs with mindfulness, sexual exercises, and dietary support is essential to achieve your desired experience.
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Thank you for sharing your intent And seeking Ayurvedic guidance, Ayurveda honours the natural interfere of both masculine and feminine sexual energy. It is possible to gently shift your experience towards a software and surrender with some important caution and Care of your overall wellbeing For a temporary effect, as you described you can use Shatavari safely which has cooling effect and helps in gentle pleasure, promote natural body leaf fluid and encourage a relaxed receptive mood Ashwagandha can calm and grounding , reduce in attention and often sharp edge, supporting a more peaceful open feeling Kapikacchu is known to stimulate a pleasure pathway and facilitate increased pre-ejaculate or prostate fluid. Supporting your wish for fluid release and easing urgency. TAGARA and jatamamsi are classical relaxant that helps bring about deep emotional surrender, a feeling that mimic the soft feminine style of erosion and pressure Shilajit if used in very low doses and balanced with cooling, may also support fluid release, but should be used with caution only for brief periods and not routinely
Mix all these in order form and drink as a tea or in warm milk Doses as follows Ashwagandha and shatavari - 2-3 gms daily Kapikacchu 1 gm daily TAGARA and jatamamsi 250 mg daily Start 1-2 days before your intended bliss period and stop as soon as your exploration is complete
Use at evening hours Meanwhile take coconut water milk almonds ghee ripe fruits Avoid spicy heating foods Do meditation Self massage with coconut oil
Exploring a temporary experience of feminine sexual energy can be supported through Ayurveda by addressing aspects of your prakriti, agni, and mental-states. To gently shift your energy, consider incorporating herbs known for modulating sexual fluids and calming vata dosha, which often enhances fluidity and receptivity.
1. Natural Supports for Temporary Feminine Energy Shift: Herbs like Shatavari and Ashwagandha can help. Shatavari is noted for its nurturing, cooling properties and supports reproductive fluids. Ashwagandha can balance nervous-system agitation, bringing a state of calm. For calming mind, Brahmi or Jatamansi are effective, encouraging a meditative state conducive to feminine energy.
2. Aware of Changes or Risks: Temporary shifts may lead to feelings of excess calm or lowered libido post-experience. Too many cooling herbs might increase kapha, causing heaviness or lethargy. As these shifts touch emotional domains, one might also experience mood fluctuations. Hormonal changes typically require sustained intervention and are less of a concern with temporary use.
3. Usage Methodology: Administer Shatavari and Ashwagandha as choornams (powders) – take 1/2 teaspoon of each, mixed in milk, once a day, in the evening. Brahmi, best as a syrup or tablet, can be taken morning and evening. Note: Use these for a segmental period ~2 weeks at max, observe how your body responds.
4. Supportive Lifestyle and Diet: Favoring a light, easy-to-digest diet reduces vata and encourages bodily fluid balance. Include warm, nourishing foods with moderate spices like turmeric and cumin to maintain agni. Hydration is crucial: indulge in healthy fluids like coconut water. For mindfulness, engage in grounding activities like yoga and deep-breathing exercises, which harness calming, feminine currents in the body.
Care should be taken to ensure these herbs, particularly Shatavari with its cooling nature, do not overpower your system. It’s a gentle path that progresses with patience and observation, always being conscious of how you feel.
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