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What are the best techniques to understand how to insert penis into vagina comfortably?
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What are the best techniques to understand how to insert penis into vagina comfortably? - #22446

Aaliyah

I am really confused about how to insert penis into vagina. So, I've been trying to explore this with my partner, but honestly, things are a bit messy! Like, we both feel awkward. The first time, we thought we were doing it right, but it just didn't work out?? I mean, there was a lot of laughter, but also some frustration. We've read about positions and stuff but actually figuring out how to insert seems so complex! One time, I didn't know how to get the angle right and we both ended up just giggling, which I guess is good but not helpful? Do we need to relax more or use a lubricant? I keep hearing that's super important. What’s the secret?? Any tips on how to insert penis into vagina more smoothly? I'm just hoping for some advice that doesn’t feel so clinical? Like, how can we connect better and make this more enjoyable? Are there specific techniques or positions that help with this? It feels like the more we try, the more we complicate it, and we just want to get it right without all the stress! Help, please!!!

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Understandably, this situation can bring some laughter and awkwardness, but it's great you're exploring it together. From an Ayurvedic perspective, fostering a gentle connection is key. To begin, relaxation is really important. Stress can block the free flow of Vata dosha, which can create tension and discomfort. Try deep breathing exercises, that's something both of you can do before attempting intercourse. Focus on calm, rhythmic breaths to ground yourselves—this will create a more relaxed ambiance. For a smoother approach, lubrication can indeed play a helpful role. Ayurveda highlights the benefits of natural oils such as sesame or coconut oil due to their nourishing and warming qualities. Test a small amount on your skin first to ensure there aren't any sensitivities. This will ease the process and enhance comfort. Finding the right angle is often about exploring different positions that feel comfortable for both of you. Start with something simple like the missionary position, it often gives more control over the angle and depth of entry. Communication is crucial here, verbally guide one another to make subtle adjustments as needed. It’s also worth honoring the emotional and spiritual aspects of intimacy. Make time to connect with your partner beyond the physical level. Simple practices like synchronized breathing or shared meditation can deepen your bond and create a sense of unity. Keep the entire process playful and without pressure—giggles and giggles are normal and can actually enrich the experience. If difficulties persist or cause discomfort, consult a healthcare professional to rule out any underlying issues. Remember, patience and practice are your friends on this journey to intimate harmony.
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