Why Does My 12-Year-Old Son Struggle to Sleep on Time? - #41408
why my 12 yrs son does not get sleep on time. he sleeps after 12 midnight till 8am. What is the issue here?
How long has your son been experiencing difficulty with his sleep schedule?:
- 1-3 monthsDoes he have any specific activities before bedtime that might affect his sleep?:
- Eating or drinkingHow would you rate his overall energy levels during the day?:
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Doctors' responses
It seems your son is experiencing a delay in sleep onset, a common issue among preteens and teenagers. This could be due to several factors, including lifestyle habits, dosha imbalances, or environmental influences. According to Ayurveda, sleep is governed by the balance of the doshas, primarily Vata and Pitta. An excess in Vata dosha often leads to restlessness and difficulty falling asleep, while Pitta imbalance may disrupt the body’s natural circadian rhythms.
To help him align his sleep patterns, consider implementing a few Ayurvedic practices. Ensure that his evening routine winds down with calming activities. Encouraging your son to limit screen time at least an hour before bed can help reduce Vata aggravation, as the light emitted by devices can interfere with melatonin production. Instead, suggest reading or listening to soothing music.
A warm bath with a few drops of calming essential oils, like lavender or chamomile, can also promote relaxation. Drinking a cup of warm milk with a pinch of nutmeg or turmeric before bedtime is recommended; nutmeg has mild sedative properties that may help induce sleep.
Try to establish a regular sleep schedule, ensuring he goes to bed and wakes up at the same time every day, even on weekends. This consistency will help recalibrate his body’s internal clock. It’s also beneficial to create a sleep-conducive environment: a cool, dark, and quiet room supports Vata’s calming.
Diet-wise, focus on nourishing meals through the day, avoiding stimulating foods like caffeine or sugar in the evening. A light evening meal around 3-4 hours before bed can aid digestion, promoting better sleep. If the problem persists or affects his daily functioning, consider consulting a healthcare professional for further evaluation.

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