My wife Lost of interest in sex - #20260
My wife 43 had no interest in sex from last six months .Even foreplay cannot arouse her.how can I increase her libido.She just participates in intercourse just for me only. Previously she used to ask for intercourse but this started suddenly.
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Hello sirâŚ
Its due to her age⌠She is in premenopausal stage so due to hormonal imbalance & vata dosha increase it happensâŚ
Nothing to warry just support her emotional changes also physical changesâŚ
You can add Ashwagandha granules with milk in her routine daily twice but not in empty stomach⌠Will make some changes in herâŚ
Hope for good results đđ
I feel that your wife is in her perimenopausal state due to Harmon all imbalance she might be loosing desire, She can start on Shatavari+ Ashwagandha churna- Half tsp each in warm milk at night can be taken
A sudden loss of interest in sex, like your wife is experiencing, can potentially be connected to a variety of factors, both physical and emotional. Ayurveda regards the balance of doshas and overall wellbeing as pivotal in a personâs sexual health.
Firstly, itâs vital to consider the vata dosha, often associated with dryness and anxiety, which might be imbalanced in this case, especially if thereâs stress involved. To pacify vata, daily Abhyanga, or self-massage with warm sesame oil, can be profoundly grounding and calming. Encouraging your wife to incorporate this into her routine might help her feel more connected and relaxed.
Hormonal changes could also be at play, especially approaching midlife. Strengthening her Agni, or digestive fire, is key in maintaining balance. Ensure her diet is warm, nourishing, and supportive of her bodyâs needs. Emphasize meals made with ghee, fresh ginger tea to ignite digestion, and cooked vegetables.
In Ayurveda, consuming aphrodisiac or âvajikaranaâ herbs and foods can support sexual vitality. Ashwagandha, known for increasing stamina and reducing stress, might be beneficial. Regular consumption of shatavari stem boiled in milk is also traditionally believed to nourish and rejuvenate the reproductive system.
Lifestyle also palys a crucial role. Encouraging her to engage in gentle yogic practices or prayanama could ease any anxiety or stress contributing to her libido. Practices focused on relaxation might create a more harmonious mental state.
Itâs also important to ensure open communication between both you. Understanding any emotional concernsâor even fatigue or lifestyle pressuresâcontributing to her reduced interest can be very productive.
If thereâs no improvment or if the symptoms persistent, it might be a good idea to seek a consultation with a healthcare professional to rule out any underlying medical conditions. Combining Ayurvedic practice with professional advice offers a holistic approach to healing and balance.

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