not getting sufficient stiffness - #26648
I am 39 year male, while having sex i loose stiffness in within 3-4 minute.working profeesional,insales field, since last few month i suffering fro m above problem. i am 174 cm tall, having weight 85 kg.
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Hi Vijaykant totally understood your situation Please start 1.Aswagandarishtam 15ml twice daily after food 2.Kapikachu churnam-1tsp with milk after dinner
🔺PATHYA-APATHYA (DIET & LIFESTYLE)
📌Pathya: -Warm, nourishing, sweet food -Cow’s milk, ghee, dates, nuts, jaggery -Adequate sleep, stress-free routine -3-4litres of water /day -More focus on fruits and vegetables -Include Sprouted grains -Walking - daily 30min to 1hour -Practice yoga and meditation regularly
📌Apathya: -Dry, spicy, salty foods -Smoking, alcohol, over-exertion -Excessive sexual indulgence, mental stress Fasting, dry and light food *Excessive thinking, anxiety, depression *Vata-aggravating diet and lifestyle *Night awakenings, sleep disturbances *Cold exposure and suppression of urges
HELLO VIJAYKANT,
YOU ARE FACING - WEAK ERECTION- INCOMPLETE ERECTION OR DIFFICULTY SUSTAINING IT. - SEXUAL FATIGUE- NO ENERGY OR CONFIDENCE AFTER THE ACT OR FEAR OF FAILURE
PROBABLE CAUSES- -PSYCHOLOGICAL STRESS=PERFORMANCE ANXIETY,DEPRESSION,LOW SELF IMAGE -POOR BLOOD FLOW= LACK OF NITRIC OXIDE TO PENILE TISSUE -NERVE WEAKNESS= DELAYED STIMULATION AND REDUCED SENSATION -HORMONAL IMBALANCE= LOW TESTOSTERONE OR HIGH PROLACTINE
#AYURVEDIC UNDERSTANDING YOUR SYMPTOMS ARE CLASSIC OF SHUKRA KSHAYA+ VATA DUSHTI, SPECIFICALLY:- -KLAIBYA=ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION-FROM LOW VITALITY -SHUKRA VEGA= INABILITY TO HOLF EJACULATION-FROM WEAK SEMEN -OJAKSHAYA= LOW ENERGY,FATIGUE,MENTAL STRESS
TREATMENT GOAL 1)IMPROVE ERECTION STRENGTH AND DURATION 2)INCREASE LIBIDO AND CONFIDENCE 3)CONTROL PREMATURE EJACULATION 4)NOURISH SHUKRA DHATU-SEMEN AND VITALITY 5)REDUCE MENTAL STRESS/ANXIETY
#START TAKING THIS MEDICINES FOR 3MONTHS CONTINUES
*MORNING(EMPTY STOMACH) 1)SHILAJIT GOLD CAP- 1 CAP WITH WARM MILK=IT BOOSTS STAMINA, TESTOSTERONE, AND LIBIDO
2)ASHWAGANDHA CHURNA- 1 TSP WITH WARM MILK HALF A GLASS= ADAPTOGEN:REDUCES STRESS AND IMPROVES SEMEN QUALITY
#AFTER MEALS(TWICE DAILY AFTER LUNCH AND DINNER)
3)VRIHAT VATCHINTAMANI RAS(PLAIN)- 1 TAB WITH HONEY= STRENGTHENS NERVES AND IMPROVES ERECTION CONTROL
4)SWARNA MAKSHIKA BHASMA- 125 MG WITH KAUNCH BEEJ CHURNA-1TSP MIX WITH WARM MILK= IMPROVES SPERM RETENTION AND STIMULATES MOOD
#AT BEDTIME
5)YOHIMBINE OR ATMAGUPTA CHURNA- 1 TSP WITH MILK AT BEDTIME= NATURAL APHRODISIAC ,INCREASES DOPAMINE FOR AROUSAL
#EXTERNAL THERAPY
1)WARM OIL MASSAGE-FOCUSED PELVIC MASSAGE- WITH SHATAVARI TAILA OR ASHWAGANDHABALA TAILA AREA- LOWER BACK,ABDOMEN,INNER THIGHS, AND GROIN AREA TIME- DAILY OR 3-4TIMES/WEEK DURATION- 15-20 MIN -ALWAYS WARM THE OIL BEFORE USE -USE GENTLE CIRCULAR STROKES OVER LOWER ABDOMEN AND GROIN -FINISH WITH A WARM TOWEL WIPE OR LUKEWARM SHOWER
2)LOCALISED HERBAL STEAM THERAPY -APPLIED AFTER OIL MASSAGE -HELPS IN VASODILATION-OPENS BLOOD VESSELS AND ENHANCES ERECTION -VERY USEFUL. IN NERVE RELATED ED OR WEAK SENSITIVITY -TAKE A BIG VESEEL OF HOT WATER WITH HERBS LIKE DASHMOOL,TRIPHALA,VACHA -COVER THE LOWER BODY WITH A CLOTH, LET THE HERBAL STEAM PASS ON THIGHS, LOWER ABDOMEN,BUTTOCKS DURATION= 10-12 MIN
3)SHUKRA TAILA- TAKE 2-3 DROPS AND APPLY OVER THE SHAFT OF PENIS(NO GLANS), GENTLY MASSAGE FOR 5 MIN BEFORE BED
4)SESAME OIL WITH CAMPHOR- WARM MIX 2 DROPS OF CAMPHOR OIL, APPLY ONLY ON SHAFT,MASSAGE LIGTLY=DAILY
NOTE- USE HIGH QUALITY CERTIFIED AYURVEDIC BRANDS LIKE DOOTPAPESHWAR, BAIDYANATH, UNJHA OR DIVYA PHARMACY PRODUCTS ONLY
#SEMEN-NOURISHING DIET-VERY IMPORTANT EAT THESE DAILY - COW’S GHEE , MILK WITH DRY DATES OR CARDAMOM -WHITE ONION JUICE OR GARLIC MILK AT NIGHT -BLACK SESAME SEEDS, PUMPKIN SEEDS, SOAKED ALMONDS -BOILED EGG , BANANA, AVOCADO, FIGS, DATES -HERBAL TEA OF SAFED MUSLI+GOKSHURA+ASHWAGANDHA
#STRICTLY AVOID -FRIED, SOUR, OVER SPICY FOOD -EXCESS TEA, COFFEE, COLD DRINKS -SMOKING, ALCOHOL,PORN USE,FREQUENT MASTURBATION -LATE NIGHT FOOD OR MOBILE PHONE USE AT NIGHT
NOW COMES THE MOST IMPORTANT PART TO FOLLOW
1)KEGEL EXERCISES(MOOLA BANDHA IN YOGA) PURPOSE- STRENGTHEN PELVIC FLOOR MUSCLES THAT SUPPORT ERECTION AND SEMEN CONTROL
HOW TO DO- -SIT/LIE DOWN AND TIGTHEN THE MUSCLES YOU USE TO STOP URINE MID STREAM -HOLD FOR 5-10 SECONDS, THEN RELEASE -REPEAT 15-20 TIMES, 3 SETS DAILY-MORNING,AFTERNOON,NIGHT
ADVANCED- TRY KEGEL CONTRACTIONS SURING AROUSAL , FOREPLAY, OR URINATION CONTROL TO STRENGTHEN EJACULATION DELAY
2)PELVIC THRUST EXERCISE(BRIDGE POSE) -LIE ON BACK, BEND KNEES, FEET FLAT -RAISE HIPS UPWARDS WHILE SQUEEZING BUTTOCKS AND HOLDING CORE -HOLD FOR 10 SECONDS AND RELEASE -DO 15 REPS*3 SETS
3)YOGA ASANA FOR SEXUAL STRENGTH -BHUJANGASANA=BOOSTS PELVIC CIRCULATION -PASCHIMITTANASANA= INCREASES SEMEN QUALITY -VAJRASANA AFTER MEALS= IMPROVES DIGESTION AND SHUKRA DHATU -ASHWINI MUDRA(ANAL LOCK)=CONTROLS PREMATURE EJACULATION
#PRANAYAM-DO 10-15 MIN DAILY -ANULOM VILOM- NERVE BALANCING -BHRAMARI- CALMS MIND, REDUCES OVER EXCITEMENT -UDGEETH- CONFIDENCE+OJAS BOOSTING
#EMOTIONAL AND MENTAL BALANCE WHAT YOU MAY BE FACING- -FEAR OF DISAPPOINTING PARTNER -GUILT OVER PAST FAILED EXPERIENCES -OVERDEPENDENCE ON PORN/ARTIFICIAL TRIGGERS -TIREDNESS FROM LACK OF SLEEP/DIET
WHAT TO DO -ACCEPT IT- SEXUAL WEAKNESS IS REVERSIBLE , DONT PANIC -TALK- EMOTIONAL INTIMACY>PHYSICAL PERFORMANCE -ENJOY SLOW FOREPLAY-DON’T RUSH -PRACTICE BRAHMACHARYA-BASED DETOX- 10-15 DAYS ABSTINENCE(NO SEXUAL ACT, NO MASTURBATION,NO AROUSAL), THEN SLOW RETURN -SLEEP MINIMUM 7 HORS DAILY AT NIGHT -AVOID PORN, OVER MASTURBATION STRICTLY
FINAL ADVICE -START THIS PROTOCOL FOR 8-12 WEEKS AND SEE VISIBLE IMPROVEMENT IN 1 WEEK -AVOID PERFORMANCE STRESS -STAY NATURAL,GROUNDED, AND COMMITTED TO HEALING.
DO FOLLOW CONSISTENTLY
THANK YOU
HOPE THIS MIGHT BE HELPFUL
DR. MAITRI ACHARYA
Start with Cap. Ashwashila 1-0-1 after food with water Divya youvanamrit gold 0-0-1 with milk at bedtime with milk Apply ashwagandha bala oil / Shilajit oil on penis externally twice daily. Have light and early dinner. Be stress free and relaxed.
Pls get Basic Health Check-up
Fasting blood sugar & HbA1c Lipid profile Testosterone levels (total & free). Blood pressure check. Thyroid profile.
2. Lifestyle & Diet Changes
Reduce weight to ~74–76 kg (improves testosterone & stamina).
Daily 30–40 min brisk walk or gym — focus on legs & core strength.
Mediterranean-style diet — more fruits, vegetables, nuts, fish, olive oil.
Limit alcohol, avoid smoking.
7–8 hrs proper sleep.
3. Sexual Health Tips
Don’t rush penetration — spend more time on foreplay (keeps arousal high).
Use stop–start technique — if you feel erection softening, slow down, stimulate manually, then continue. Kegel exercises (pelvic floor strengthening) — tighten pelvic muscles for 5 sec, relax, repeat 15–20 times twice a day.
Use Baidyanath malla oil apply on private part and gently massage Shilajit Gold cap 0-0-1

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